ok i live with this guy craig, we've been mates for ever! & we've always been close, hes had girls round & there all over him & i neva used 2 mind but now when his girlsfriend came round i was sick with envy! i can't stop thinking about him but if i tell him i'm scared of rejection, as everyone is! but i mean if we did hav a chance i'd b soo happy what should i do!!
2007-01-29 22:02:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should try and tell him,but not straight out incase he does'nt feel the same,it would'nt be so hard if you didnt live with him,flirt a bit and see how he reacts
2007-01-29 22:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you kinda throw a hint out there - like maybe if the two of you were chilling in the house some evening open up a bottle of wine and maybe throw out a comment like - gosh all we're short now is a cuddle on the sofa for the perfect romantic evening - something like that and see how he reacts - if he appears horrified you can laugh it off and be like "as if" but if he doesnt dismiss the idea maybe you would feel a bit more comfortable about persuing the conversation further...
Best of luck!
xx
2007-01-29 22:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you like him or could you maybe be jealous of the fact that you haven't got a special someone of your own, once you have thought about that, if the answer is yes you really do like him then you have to tell him, he ay realize just how much he likes you back or if he doesn't at least you will know and you can move on without regretting never asking. hope you get together!!! :-)
2007-01-29 22:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's too short to not go for the things we want. I say go for it in your own way and time. You may feel better subtly flirting like NATALIE W suggested, that's probably what I'd do. But whatever you do you don't wanna become just another notch in his bedpost.
Good Luck!!xx
2007-01-29 22:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by LMac100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may just be a case of confusion hun because you feel so close to him you dont want to loose him to someone else or for him to feel as close or closer to someone other than yourself.
sit down and think about this properly then if it is love you need to talk to him you dont know till you ask
good luck
2007-01-29 22:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by theoriginalbitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over your fear of rejection talk to you about your feelings towards him. Guys constantly face rejection. After being rejected a few thousands times, we become desensitized to it.
2007-01-29 22:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is great. Now win over this boy.
http://www.yourromanceguide.com/articles/for-women/
2007-01-29 22:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by wode h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah go on, get your kit off and give him one, or even two your still young, but dont rush in to anything serious like kissing him.
2007-01-29 22:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by "THE WISE ONE" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spit out your mind maybe he will b interested too.. but be careful if he is fully hooked he might hate u for that.gud luck
2007-02-01 21:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with him first before you determine that you are in love with anyone. That's just plain psyco if you think you're in love. Maybe you just need to get laid by anyone.
2007-01-29 22:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋