Is it possible to love someone you have never met? I have been talking to a guy on the phone for a few months now, a friend of the family tried to hook us up, and he's the sweetest guy on the phone. I'm dying to meet him, havent yet because of work schedules but it should be soon. I really think I may love him. Is that possible or am I crazy?
2007-01-29 21:42:58 · 15 answers · asked by Leo_Woman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its possible with crazy people, but don't worry we all r crazy .. :) my only suggestion is meet him with open mind and see where it takes u.
2007-01-29 21:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how love starts. Step one, the connection. You won't really be sure of how you feel til you've done your whole 'love list'. That's the list we females have that 'the one' has to go through. You know what I mean, the stuff the right guy must have balanced with what totally turns you off.
Some of that list can be checked off only in person, and with time. Give it a chance, open your heart, check off that list.
Always ride the pony called Love as far as you can and bet on a good future, because if you hesitate life may take the ponies off the track before you get your chance!
Good luck!
2007-01-30 06:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by What_Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very possible that you dearly love him, but every guy can pretend to be nice(sweet) over the phone as long as he knows he is after something, so it better to meet him and if you think he is cute enough to be your soul mate take about a week or 2 so you can know him better, then if all goes well, I say "go for it girl".
2007-01-30 05:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by van hastling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i suppose you can. but maybe you should meet him to see what he's like in person. good luck!!!
morderwarg says - people are always different in person than over the net or phone - so you never know what he's really like for better or worse. be safe (use protection - take your friend along)
2007-01-30 05:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by joe pasquale lover!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very possible! I've been talking to a girl on the internet, and I'm falling for her even though we've never met! I know it doesn't make sense, but I can't help myself.
2007-01-30 10:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible.. But then expect less. I mean you might get your expectations too high but then at the end you'll realize that he's not the right guy for you.. Just do it for fun.. and I bet he does that way too. Nowadays very few guys wants to be committed seriously. So the bottom line is: BELIEVE IN, BUT EXPECT LESS. :)
2007-01-30 05:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by MiG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush. It is romantic to think he's the one. Especially since you haven't met him yet. He might be handsome, rich, polite, respectful and may even put the toilet seat down! I hope he's all that, but you probably know that people can be very different in person.
Good luck!
2007-01-30 05:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible but .....................beware. while talking on the telephone you draw a pic. in your mind but he might be different from this pic. It happened to me and i discovered that he was completely different from what i heard on the telephone . But his personality might be the same. i fell in love with the voice and character which i heard on the phone/ but u know what, it's not gonna harm u if u try . good luck
2007-01-30 05:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by drfarfour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible. I think its more of a case of being intensely curious about him. Try to meet him and get to know him maybe you will develop stronger feelings for him
2007-01-30 05:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just really like him. Meet him and spend time with him before you consider it love.
2007-01-30 05:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by A J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋