About 10 months ago I met a guy at work. We hit it off and he looked me up by my school e-mail address. We started e-mailing and eventually calling. This all led up to a date. He had told me previously that he had a huge fear of commitment. Stupid me, I thought maybe I would be different because it was obvious to me that he really liked me. Well, after a certain date we had that went further than we intended (but it was amazing), he dropped off the face of the planet to later tell me he was scared that we were getting too close. (BS?) I told him I understood and wished him the best. Come to find out a few months later (thanks to my handy dandy myspace tracker) that he was looking at my myspace almost every day for months and visiting my blog even more than that. I called him on it and he admitted it was him looking saying he was concerned about me. I don't know why but sometimes I just wonder if he still cares. What do you think?
2007-01-29 21:42:28 · 4 answers · asked by Aphrodite 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats really weird. I think he got what he wanted from you. He sounds like a psyco-stalker-serial rapist. If he was so concerned about you, why didnt he just pick up the phone and call you. Id stay away from that one. Be careful and good luck!
2007-01-29 21:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by deere73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he still cares. Would you check on someone's page/profile if you didn't give a **** about them? Probably not.
As far as being afraid of commitment...well, I can't answer the why's of that for you or him...but at least he was honest with you about it up front. If you are still interested in him you will need one very important thing...PATIENCE. You'll need to be there for him and probably "pursue" him to an extent...passively of course. Invite him out for a drink/movie/coffee or something just to let him know that you still like to spend time with him. Just don't expect too much too soon. If he likes you, he'll come around, but there's no guarantee how long he will take to do it.
Hope that helps!
2007-01-30 06:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by iipiki_okami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, he sounds abit weird to me. Like why drop out like that and then keep visiting your blog??? Strange.... Glad to hear what you had was amazing, but is having a guy who just vanishes like that after great s*x worth it? Surely if he cared enough he would have at least kept in contact. Its your call - but I think Id be giving him the cold shoulder!
2007-01-30 05:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Really Cares and Admire you but he's Not ready yet..Let the Feeling Grow, well if you like him show Him How to be strong and Confident to show His real feeling..If he dint move but likes you that mean you Must have the first move...But still its up to you..
2007-01-30 05:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by naomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋