I found out that my fiance and this girl started to sms each other, I've asked him what about he told me it's nothing to worry about! I've asked him if he would like it if I did it and he said 'no' so he stopped to sms her! Why did they in the first place started to chat?
And what should I think about it, should I just leave it or should I worry! ( I've saw the girl, and she knows about me!)
2007-01-29 21:19:46 · 6 answers · asked by angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People in relationships start to SMS others for a number of reasons. One of them is because it is fun to flirt. Look at your relationship closely. Are you focusing on your fiance. I am not saying that he has to be the centre of his life, but maybe he would like some flirty SMS messages from you. Spice up your relationship.
It would bother me if my husband was smsing another girl, but I do have male friends who I innocently sms, and my husband knows. They are just friends.
The other point is, that a lot of people who are about to get married like to "check" they are doing the right thing. This can be by testing there loyalty to there future life partner. So be careful. Maybe he is having second thoughts.
2007-01-29 21:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as there was nothing sexual in their sms then don't worry about it. Can a guy have a female friends along with having a girlfriend? I don't think so, in my case there's always going to be jealousy and resentment so I quit having female friends because my girlfriend was so jealous over nothing. If your boyfriend really liked this woman as a good friend,is he going to resent you for having to dump this friend? If my girlfriend was talking to other guys it wouldn't bother me because I would trust her enough to know she's not planning to have an affair.
2007-01-30 05:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea....get your fiance to just be honest with you. If he texts her again and it goes on for a long time....then you should worry i guess.
2007-01-30 05:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think you have anything to worry about because as soon as you said something he stopped so he obviously respects your feelings.
2007-01-30 05:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just drop it. It seems that he realized you didn't like it, and he wouldn't liek it either so he stopped. You should drop it unless it happens again.
2007-01-30 05:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am confused
2007-01-30 05:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by jas0friend 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋