2007-01-29 21:18:46 · 7 answers · asked by onecrowdedhr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To him, that may be an excuse, yes. But did he give u any explanations as to why he want to end the relationship; or did he just stick to the excuse that u were 'not' faithful? It is only fair to get an explanation from him. Then again, sometimes it is better not to probe further cuz u will get hurt deeper, if he prefers it this way. U will be alot happier to not know the truth. It could be a blessing in disguise that u could meet someone better than him. U can live without him.
2007-01-29 21:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry Shortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good sign. He should beleive you, and he shouldnt be accusing you. I think Id be looking for another bf if he keeps this rubbish up. Even if you get accused of it once, its enough to dint the relationship, hurts you & by rule of thumb generally men/women who make unwarranted allegations that are playing around themselves!
You may be better off with another guy..who trusts you!
2007-01-29 21:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend... I know this is hard for you but take this as a hint...RUN FOR THE HILLS. He doesn't believe you for one of two reasons...Either he has been severely damaged by his ex's cheating habits...which equals BAGGAGE!! or two.... HE IS CHEATING...and wants to point the blame towards you so you won't pick up the cheater in him and point the finger to him. BAGGAGE AGAIN. Leave him....trust me. Tell him you are not into playing childish games nor do you have to prove yourself in this area. When he becomes a man...use his pointer to look you up. Until then mingle with the real MEN who are confident in themselves. Good Luck and remember this is a mind game he is playing and it takes two....
2007-01-29 21:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by aprildin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it may be. however, i think you should sit down and talk if you really wanna know why. he might be facing some other problems and he just use this to stop ur relationship. or maybe he has just change his mind and doesn't have feelings for you anymore. take some time and talk.
2007-01-29 21:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Addicted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a loving relationship its all about TRUST and if there isnt any (there doesnt appear to be in his case)then the relationship is doomed. Find someone else.He's not worth worrying about.
2007-01-29 21:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Daydreamer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give a thought ... Why suddenly he changed??? did u gave him wrong signals from ur behaviour??? IMO only u can give these answers to urself and find solution.
Also u can try to find reason why he thinking like that and have a heart to heart talk with him.
2007-01-29 21:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of times, if one person in a realationship is cheating they will acuse the other person in the relationship of cheating.
2007-01-29 21:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Leo_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋