well last night i stayed a my girlfriends house and she asked me to hug her while we slept...nothing happened...when we woke up we did't talked she had a shower then while im sitting at the edge of the bed she approached me and kissed me...and she said you are a winner... well what do you think she was triying to tell me?
2007-01-29 20:00:34 · 11 answers · asked by Arnel I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is an easy one... and you should pat yourself on the back for this. the girl wanted to know if you're a gentleman. she wanted to know that you are in it for HER, not only for her body. guys get a bad name because - truthfully - most of us earn that bad name. it's kinda like how you'd feel if she wanted you to sleep with her on the first date. in a relationship, don't you want a girl who has more to offer you than simply her body? if you answered yes to this then you already stand head and shoulders above most "guys". and that's what she wanted to know from you. congratulations, you passed a very significant test. hold on to this one... she's special. she doesn't want a "guy", she wants you
2007-01-29 20:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by PHX RISING 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What a really cute story... You are obviously a really decent guy. Alot of "normal" guys would try and do other stuff if their lady asked their man to just "hug" her when lying in bed. And when she went for a shower, she was maybe expecting you to say something knobish like, "Can I join you?", so when she had time to think about how respectful you had been in the circumstances you were in she thought to herself, hey, this guy is the winner.. He's the one!
2007-01-30 04:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cuddled with her and didn't push the issue of sex with her. She is seeing that your not like other guys who just think with their penis's and actually have enough sense to put your hormones in check for her emotional needs. She is basically saying thank you for the cuddle time! Although it seems like you wanted a little more from her, you might want to read up on how and what girls really want and expect. They do this to us so they know, obviously your gf does. Just respect her and when sex happens it will, if she pushes you off or brushes off sex don't get pissy just say ok and cuddle with her.
2007-01-30 04:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by jls1znv9999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she means you both slept in the same bed and you did'nt try anything. That means a lot.Looks like you past the test. Congratulations. Now she knows she can trust you.
2007-01-30 04:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls want to know that you are not in it for the sex and the sex alone. Sometimes we just don't feel like having sex but want to be close... not that many guys understand/respect that need.
You held her like she wanted you to and did not try to turn it into foreplay... you did just what she needed and she liked that!
She was thanking you and letting you know that she appreciated the fact that you could do that for her.
This is a good thing BTW... don't over think it.
2007-01-30 04:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is trying to test to see if ur a true gentleman. Some guys might wanna have a shag or two...and since u respected her by hugging her n sleep and nothing else...she thought ur a good person...i might be wrong. To me, i dislike girls that test a guy like that...rather want her to be truthful.
2007-01-30 04:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm... how is the relationship going? Have you been having problems? It seems like she has a lot on her mind. It seems like she might be having doubts about the relationship. Maybe she wants you to know that its her not you type of thing. Hope everything works out. Take care...
2007-01-30 04:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by LD82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are young or not in a sexual relationship yet, perhaps she was proud of you for not "trying anything" under the circumstances.
2007-01-30 04:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by learning_to_live_616 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she means that its great that you can sleep in the bed together without you expecting anythig to happen....
2007-01-30 04:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be any number of things...you're going to have to ask her I'm afraid...
2007-01-30 04:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋