Ive been with this guy for 6 months and everything is 'perfect' and all but the sex is the main reason we are together, is it just because we have so much chemistry? or we just love eachother so much? we do it all the time or when we can....help me figure it out
2007-01-29 19:47:53 · 11 answers · asked by libbee_emiliana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is only about what happens in the bedroom than its not love it is lust. There is a big factor in that area when it comes to making love but its a small fraction of what encompasses the entire relationship when love is involved. Another words great chemistry in the bedroom doesn't make it not a good thing, but it shouldn't be the foundation the relationship is built upon either.
-NmD!
2007-01-29 19:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's love. Probably more like lust. You see, real love is when you're willing to go to the end of the world with someone. You're willing to except the hardships of life with someone. The highs and lows. Maybe even willing to die for that person.
It looks like you two are only experiencing the fun parts of the relationship. Which is fine because it's been 6 months and so you're probably still courting each other. But sooner or later a low has to come (ex. illness/health, employment, finance, etc.) You'll know if you love him if you've both were able to get through many, many lows together...
I hope this answers your question. Good luck...
2007-01-29 20:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's an excellent reason to cultivate the relationship! But, try and find other reasons to enjoy each other's company so that when the sex is stopped for whatever reason, the relationship can grow in other areas. Not a damned thing wrong with good sex; if more of these people on here had what you've got, maybe they wouldn't ask such stupid questions!!!
2007-01-29 20:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is interesting...why are you asking if it is right or wrong when you have already entered a relationship. The time to ask that should have been a lot sooner....now the question is...is this going to go anywhere lasting....and I would answer no...probably not. If everything was "perfect", you wouldn't be asking the question....obviously "everything" is not and you are trying to build a relationship on lust...not love....which does not last.
Love changes....it grows and matures and lasts. Lust usually will not....sad but true. Before you have children, I do hope you think this relationship thru. Have you heard of "Dr. Laura"? on the radio? Listen to her advice for awhile to hear about what lasts.
2007-01-29 20:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey u could just have sexual chemistry &that's it. the only way to find out is if u kinda cut out the sex &see if u connect on an other level. If u don't, that will be ur answer.
2007-01-29 20:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was in the same situation as you but we broke up cause we didnt want anythign serious.
we didnt see each other properly for 2 weeks and realised how much we missed each other
now we have sex and share each others company but have that little bit of freedom not to worry about it all too much
but yeah....he is the best sex ive had and i dont wanna lose it!
2007-01-29 19:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by itshellhot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sex is king, but if there nothing underneath then it wont last 4eva, chemistry wears out with time
2007-01-29 19:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by king of spain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause its not wrong......eighteen years later and still awesome
and even though weve had some really bad times weve also had heaps of fun
2007-01-30 00:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by kittykat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you know the answer girl - let me know! Give me a holler because I am in the SAME situation....tough isn't it?? Good luck to you!.....
2007-01-29 19:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by babyblues_752001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. But it's probably just lust.
2007-01-29 19:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋