my bf's sister has moved in with us. At first she seemed very nice, loves chatting and can seem sweet at times. But as time go on, i been noticing the other side of her. She consistantly lies about everything, likes to cause problems (a freakin two face), and when she is with me shes completley differnt She has over 10 personalities that i see of...She is very manipulative and can change any story around to always make you look bad, loves to have other people pity her, say things about others people children when she has no custody of her own childrens (dont see her ownself) she is sneaky around the house, and eats everything in the fridge, gets jeolous that her brother, my bf treats me good and takes me out so she alwys find ways to jeopardize our relationship, her mood changes all the times not in mean ways but in sneaky coniving ways, she also gets so hyper that when she talks its so hard to get a hold of what exactly she is saying (mayb shes lying)....I mean the list kinda goes....
2007-01-29 19:27:57 · 6 answers · asked by jasMINe 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The problem with a person like this is, that YOU will end up looking like the liar..be very careful, and do not give her any information that she could use against you...she will always be on her guard to look perfect to everyone else, and make you look like the nut...I do not know why she is living with you...you must be a very nice gf to do this....Watch her, very very close, I don't want you to be paranoid, but this kind of person can be dangerous...a person who talks fast like that in her situation, is always up to something. Please please be careful. I personally would not let her live there any more.
2007-01-29 19:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well if she has more then 10 different personalities i would say that she is not borderline, it sounds more like mpd, or as they call it today DID. Borderline does not have a lot of different personailities, so maybe she should go see someone that deal with Mpd, and see if that is what she has. So what you may be seeing is some of the personilites coming out and wanting to eat, and that. You know that some people that have that disorder, can eat all night, cause different personilites keep coming out and they are all hungry. So they may hear you guys talking and are afraid to show themselfs, and so they lie to you, cause they really do not know what else to do. But i would have her checked out by an doctor that deals with MPD. Cause that is not Borderline.
2007-01-29 21:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A person like this can make your life a living hell!!
I made a mistake and remained married to:
a lying, 2 faced, manipulative, childishly demanding, emotionally sadistic, whining, selfish, irresponsible, unloving, cold, money worshiping, self loving, arrogant, disrespectful, narcissistic, evil hearted, game playing, mother hating, morally bankrupt individual that I thought that if I 'showed him the light' that he could alter his behavior because he wanted to! WRONG!!!!
He BEGGED me to "stay with him and work on his problems" and cried the puppy dog tears to go with his manipulation of me!
He confessed later that it was only to hurt me and keep me from getting a good divorce settlement!
He was the UGLIEST human I've ever given any time to. He hated women because they could use beauty and child birth against men!!!!PSYCHO!!!!!!
He was extremely lazy and wouldn't take care of any thing he owned but always acted like what he had was never good enough and that he should have better! A real creep.
Tell your brother that he's headed for a total heartache and she has more issues than Sports Illustrated!! Dump her!
2007-01-29 19:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
why IS SHE LIVING WITH YOU???
you HAVE GIVEN US NOT MUCH TO WORK WITH...How old is she....
BUT I will pretend she is old enough to have a boy friend...so about 18_30.
So why dont you confront her in front of your boyfriend.
If he doesn't like you doing that say goodbye to him. You certainly dint need s--t in your life.
People who have mental illness can become very good at manipulation.
I feel that confronting her with him in the room is the best thing you can do. Write down the points you want to bring up. Sit her and him down at the table make a coffee and chat. Then bring out your list and say I want to discuss this with you Belinda and George.
It they dont want to discuss it then I would pack my bags and go home to my parents place or move in with someone else.
2007-01-29 19:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
compulsive liar maybe - But borderline personality? Bipolar? Mental health problem? Do you know enough about these conditions to be throwing accusations around? From what you have said I think not
2007-01-29 19:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know someone the same way!!! Get away from it, it will only cause BIGGER problems! Not just BP, but CRAZY!!!!!
2007-01-29 19:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Yvonne T 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋