2007-01-29 19:24:10 · 20 answers · asked by tigerlily6774 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one likes being spied on. What you might want to do is ask him why he felt the need to spy on you. Maybe a long conversation about trust is in order. He could be feeling insecure and need some reassurance. I am not for a minute saying what he did is right, but if you love him, you might want to see if you can work it out by asking what the two of you can do to resolve this. And of course, I would ask that he immediately remove the spyware.
2007-01-29 19:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had this happen to me and I found it untrustworthy this person would do it to me. I did forgive them for it because they did confess to it before I found out, but I was angry. I told them that if they were to ever do it again that I would not be able to continue our relationship. I do not have anything to hide, but I want to be with someone who trusts me and does not have to do these things. I think that you have to decide how much your relationship means. If it is a new relationship, I would probably end it cuz it may lead to worse problems down the road. But if it a long term realtionship, then I would make sure to sit down with them and discuss this issue. See why they did it and how you can work on your relationship to fix any problems that may have caused him to do this. Good luck
2007-01-29 19:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is psycho with a capital P you need to leave him remember the movie sleeping with the enemy that will be you in a couple of months making sure the towels are straight and the can goods are stacked in a neat little
rows you need to leave him before the beatings start. If you don`t your a stupid women.
2007-01-29 21:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he is being honest with u...don't u want a honest bf? And u cld tell him that u dislike him invading ur privacy even tho if u got nothing to hide...he shld respect u for that. Talking to him abt how u feel is always the best way rather then speculate the whole situation and make it worst. All the best!
2007-01-29 19:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem. Trust is the key issue here. The reason why he is doing it is unknown, however he wouldnt be doing it if there wasnt a problem. Rather tell him straight, look you can trust me, there is nothing to worry about. If he does not accept that carries on, rather let him go, cause he will continue.
2007-01-29 19:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by stephen b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHile he does probably care about u...that borders on obsession and the fact that he doesnt feel like he trusts u. Regardless of whether u might or might not be doing anything bad, relationships are about trust and its something that has to be risked. U should certainly talk to him and see what he says, then depending on what he says make your decision and you also might wanna say 'if u cant trust me then we shouldnt be together'
2007-01-29 19:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is very obvious that he not only has trust issues, but control issues as well. This most likely is not something that is going to end,therefore,for your own peace of mind and independence it would be best to leave him and move on.
2007-01-29 19:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by divingonthemuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not right but I say be mad but realize that he did confess. Which be happy he did but tell him that if he keeps do it that makes it hard to want to still be dating him.
2007-01-29 19:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by hphlly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way of using such software and here mayb what happened without u realize u had written ur password and he got it.
2007-01-29 22:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck. I'm a believer in second chances, but get an apology and if he does it again, dump his tacky tush.
2007-01-29 19:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by fair_gwenofair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋