how long should one spend together to take the plunge?
2007-01-29 18:50:55 · 15 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not sure how long is too soon,but I noe too soon is always better than too long n too late.heres a real example...
A n B were in love,,, in de 3rd year,A wanted 2mary B,B waz over de moon but she thought it waz TOO SOON as she waz TOO YOUNG!n stil,they walked 2gether n spend their time happily...
but,slowly...they found many bad habits on each other which they couldn't stand anymore due to TOO LONG they have spend 2gether!in de end,they broke up,they admitted that they stil love each other,the only problem is that,they thought they were not suitable 4each other!they were sad when they found that they were not Born 4 Each Other!but were glad that they realized this b4 they get marry with each other!n dis actually happened on de 5th year...
by de time,there waz another couple who have spend their time 2gether 4more than 3years.n they decided 2spend their whole life 2gether while they stil love each other deeply!they got marrried on the 3th year...
mayb people will ask:did they live happily right from de start?
ofcos not!they also found that its quite hard 2live 2gether with some1 who grew up in a totally different environment n way of living as well.
but heres a little bit diferent...they were willing 2change themself for each other!bcos they CHOOSE WHAT THEY LOVE,n LOVE WHAT THEY HAVE CHOSEN!they really live 2gether happily until now... u get what I waz trying 2 say?do it b4 its TOO LATE if u r sure that u really love her/him...
Best Wishes!!!
2007-01-29 20:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by beckham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love then there shouldn't be any rush. If you guys really have what it takes then the only thing marriage will do is make it legal. Me and my bf have been together for 3 yrs and we are engaged but that one piece of paper is the only thing that stops us from calling ourselves married. We live together and pay bills like husband and wife. We have anniversaries and talk about children. We'd like to get married and we could have but we like where we are at and feel no need to pay extra money for a piece of paper that doesn't change anything. If you feel you are ready to be married then go for it. It's never too soon but its never too late either. think about that before you decide. get to know your partner and try to picture yourself with them for the next 50+ yrs. Hope i helped.
2007-01-29 18:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by angleyez_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too soon to ask the special person to marry you. If u take time to take the plunge, it may never happen.
2007-01-29 18:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband of 30 years and I started dating in July, he asked me to marry him in September and we were married the following April. So do what feels right. If I had to do it all over again, I most certainly would. My husband is a great guy.
2007-01-29 18:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age now.
If you are 25 and above, 2 years is okay. Anyone younger should wait at least 3 - 5 years.
Unless she is pregnant, then sooner.
Good Luck
2007-01-29 18:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've only been with the person for a few months.
But it isnt that bad if you two have been acting serious with eachother the entire time, knowing that you both want to be with eachother for a very long time.
2007-01-29 18:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
less then a minute if you feel its right. the chance of it lasting are higher(in the USA) if you get married in less then 6 weeks then any other.
2007-01-29 19:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait untel you become ready to be responsbal and old enugh to take care of things ( home , kids , ...etc )
and yeah also after 500 sex nights together
have a nice day
2007-01-29 18:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
until you know that you both know each other enough and you both have survived and worked out great in getting through several relationship problems, there is trust, commitment, and unconditional love.
2007-01-29 19:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by terra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you, are you ready to ask them to marry you ?, if so then go ahead and ask
2007-01-29 19:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋