why do men look for sex outside thier relationship?

Question

why even if men are in love withthier partners given oppurtunity they tend to go for sexual trips..

Answer 1

Because what used to be in there relationship has gone some place shortly after honey moon, so if its no longer available at home, its always available out there some place....

Answer 2

Its simple biology and survival of the Human Race.

The female of the species, essentially, only needs to engage in sex once every nine months to maximize their "babymaking" status.

Where the male of the species is biologically programmed to pretty much have a downtime of approximately 30 minutes.

The biological setup is there, we all know it. And this was essential when there were fewer humans on the planet. Think about it, you only have a couple hundred thousand neaderthals around, with an expected lifespan of only 20-30 some years tops, you need the males to go out and find more women who are "ready" to keep the species going. Our ancestors didnt have the luxury of spooning or playing house.

That said, that essential programming is there and that is the MOST basic reason why men "cheat" or seek out multiple partners.

Now, why would a man make an emotional commitment to a woman that goes against his primal urges, then betray her? thats a whole different question. :)

Answer 3

I don't and won't if i truly love someone. For those who love their partners and yet go for sexual trips..hmm...doubt he loves her as much as himself. I know some guys who thinks that 1 girl ain't enough for him..which is a friend of mine...he said that all men can't live with just 1 girl...and i disagree with him..i said i can. Btw, women too look for sex outside their relationship, some even go to the extend of saying they are bored at home and shag those hse-husband while their hubby is at work. So, it depends on how selfish one can be.

Answer 4

I can't speak for all men because I've never cheated or looked outside of a relationship, but I think guys want to feel as if they can have any girl they want, even if they're in or out of a relationship. It's just a pride issue probably.

Answer 5

A surprising new study says the answer might be in their genes.True or not, the notion that men are "hard-wired" by evolution to spread their seed while women are predisposed to seek monogamous relationships has been around for years.
The new study, conducted by Bradley University psychologist David Schmitt and published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, is impressive in its scope: It involved 16,288 college students from 50 countries in the Americas, Europe, Africa, Asia, and Australia. Men and women were asked how many partners they would like to have in the next month. The average response from men was 1.87 and from women, 0.78; more than a quarter of men and just five percent of women said they wanted more than one partner in the next month. Over the next 10 years, men wanted an average of nearly six partners; women, just over two. Since the greater male preference for sexual variety was found in every country included in the study, some evolutionary psychologists have hailed the Schmitt study as definitive, irrefutable evidence that these differences are indeed biological. Not so fast, critics say. Some degree of a sexual double standard that stigmatizes promiscuity for women but condones or even encourages it for men exists in every one of the cultures included in the study. It's not surprising that women's and men's responses would reflect these attitudes. A man may feel that expressing a desire for more sexual partners makes him look more virile; a woman may feel that it makes her look like a slut. Consider another recent study by Ohio State University psychologist Terri Fisher, appearing in the Journal of Sex Research. Fisher had college students fill out questionnaires about their sexual experiences and attitudes. Some of them completed the questionnaires while hooked up to a polygraph machine, which they were told would detect any dishonesty (though in fact the machines didn't work). Others filled out the surveys alone in a room, assured of anonymity. The third group filled out the surveys alone in a room with the door open and the researcher sitting outside, and were told the researcher might see their answers. The women in the last group reported an average of 2.4 sexual partners in their lifetime. However, women reported an average of 3.4 partners when assured of anonymity—and 4.4 when hooked up to the "lie detector." The women in the last two groups also reported having sex for the first time at an earlier age. For men, the results were virtually the same regardless of the setting in which they answered the questionnaire—except that men reported losing their virginity at an earlier age when they were not assured of anonymity. In other words, men's and women's reports of their sexual behavior are influenced by stereotypical social expectations. Surprise, surprise. One might argue that the universality of the sexual double standard suggests that it's rooted in biology. And to some extent, it is. For most of history, before reliable contraception existed, the cost of sex was much higher for women than for men; no wonder parents were more concerned about protecting the chastity of daughters. Men's uncertainty about their paternity also led to harsh restrictions on women's sexual behavior. But there is no reason to believe that this legacy is impervious to social change. In Schmitt's study, sex differences were consistent across cultures yet women's and men's choices were more similar in more egalitarian societies. Other research shows that while men are more interested in casual sex than women, the ideal for the vast majority of women and men alike is sex in a loving, monogamous relationship. There is, obviously, no benefit in denying real gender differences. But sex stereotypes that are the stuff of late-night comedy routines don't help, either. Too often, they obscure what we all have in common as human beings.

Answer 6

Men constantly wants to prove their manhood. They always feel that they can do better with the next one.
Only men who feels insecure, needs to go to other women to prove themselves.
Irrespective, whether they have a pretty wife or girlfriend, most men will commit themselves in such activities.

Good Luck

Answer 7

There are two kinds of men, men who cheat and men who don't. Usually you have an idea what kind of man you're dealing with. If you keep running into cheaters, ask yourself what it is about you that you're attracted to that kind of man? Do they seem more dynamic, or exciting, or hard to get? There are men out there who don't cheat, you should look for them.

Answer 8

not all of them but 1 of 99 percent go for sex it might be the difference in love and poeple or on onother hand the age and harmons required to have a sex

Answer 9

Because men are dogs and they are never satisfied with what they have at home. If there is someone else willing to spread their legs then you can bet that the guy is gonna take it!

Answer 10

women are more likely to cheat then men! and science says that when a women comes, it help keeps a second man from becoming the father of her offspring.