can a boy have a one side love longer then 3 years with a girl whom she really love and the girl hates him too much and even not answering his phone not replying E-mails and no ways to see her from close if you think it is true then what is a best solution to make her yours and to make the love double
2007-01-29 18:39:54 · 2 answers · asked by Omed S.S GRSN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure you can love a person who doesn't love you back, but it is truly one sided and would never fill you need to be loved and appreciated in return. I wouldn't know why you would want to pursue someone who has absolutely no interest in you. As far as making her yours and doubling the love...you can't make anyone love you. Love is something that grows from within a person, it's not something you can make someone do. But the first thing you can do is stop hounding her, if she can't breath without you being up her nose that will not help her see what a great guy you are, but make you an annoyance to her and she will resent you even more. Give her room to breath, would be a great place to start. Then I would go and try to find someone who is more compatible with your own interests and who is interested in you..that would be a much more rewarding relationship for you to pursue than one with this girl who has no interest. Not quite the answer you would want, but a truthful one. As much as you think you want a relationship with this girl, it would not work out, relationships take two willing people who want a relationship together and sometimes that isn't even enough. You would be behind the 8 ball all the time and you would be chasing a fantasy forever, in that case chase the fantasy with a happy ending!! Find a mutually interested partner. Good luck.
2007-01-29 19:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by fleaflopper 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that's called STALKING - give it up and leave her alone.
2007-01-29 18:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by RM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋