Need advice...!!!! HELP!?

Question

I have a boyfriend who has a neighbor I know he has had intimate relations with during the last time we were broken up (maybe not penetration, but everything else ---he won't admit to ANYTHING with her though) and he insists on talking about things he has done with her (non-sexual), can't seem to say 'no' to her or her kids, brings her up in the conversation on a weekly/monthly basis, goes to see her when I'm not around, let's her drop in on him anytime....but who INSISTS there is nothing going on. She showed up last month when I was there visiting and they both acted extremely guilty---she ran out of the house when she found out I was there. How am I supposed to handle this? It drives me CRAZY when he interjects a story into our normal conversation about her....It's the lying that drives me nuts....if he would just say, "yeah, I had sex her" then maybe I wouldn't get reminded of his lying every time he says her name. What can I do not to get screaming mad when he does this to me?

Answer 1

I've been through kind of the same thing i understand how you feel and the thing no matter how much you want her out of the picture she will never be out of the picture he will never stop talking about her. i would you break up with him if he knows what he is losing then he'll change but that's a very slim doubt. at least you were broken up when he did it i wasn't that lucky. My advice to you is dump him it seems he can't make up his mind about you or her and her kids. your better off without him guys are dogs and that's what they will always be. i bet she has very strong feelings for him and if they are close friends she will always be there any who good luck i hope i helped somewhat.. Take care and never let a man be in control of you... what you say goes...

Answer 2

If you are very sure he is fooling around, then do yourself a favor and leave him. Have some self respect, they are playing with you. Find someone honest.