what should i do to make him relize my importance help me out plz
2007-01-29 18:13:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesnt take you seriously and doesn't realize your importance then get out of that relationship my dear friend. You are not worth that kind of treatment. You deserve somebody who would see your importance even without you making efforts for that person to notice.
2007-01-29 18:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by terra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First act a little bit more mature and take your self seriously. Then once you figured out your game plan stick to it and dont let go until he gives in and realizes how important you are. The silent treatment works well and the busy work girl works even better because he will feel second in your life and that will make him upset in a way and wanting u more in another way.
2007-01-30 02:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way anyone will ever take your feelings into consideration, "take you seriously" is if YOU first take your self seriously. If you have accepted being treated badly, as to make you feel unimportant, then tell me, who is to blame here? In any relationship when you feel you are being disrespected it is YOUR responsibility to move on and protect yourself from this. It is NOT your job to try and change and convince another person to treat you better. You cannot control others but you sure can control yourself. Hope I have helped. Good luck to you!
2007-01-30 10:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
State your opinion and seriousness directly and honestly.
If your boy friend is not busy with something serious in his life, he would share the same feelings, in the same way as you do.
Be Patient
2007-02-01 07:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear rish,
Because he doesnt have any importances of you in his life.
Start ignoring him, dont answer his calls and hang around with your friends but not with him. Let him feel jealous if he loves you from bottom of his heart he will realise it. CHOW!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-30 06:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by ROHAN G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with terra' s point of view.... get out of it ...that way he will definately understand u r worth......
You are special !! just know this!!
Nandy
Nandyoops@yahoo.co.in
2007-01-30 02:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by nandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimatum you either realize I am serious or I guess this means goodbye.
2007-01-30 02:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need not do anything . be honest with him stand firm with him in his good and bad times. he will sooner or later realise you.
2007-01-30 02:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont u sit and talk...
talk.. talk.. talk
dat makes da differnce
2007-01-30 03:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by navkar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋