I'm not sure if i still like this one girl case i do think about her alot, but i don't want to go out her case she is a cutter, steals and treats me really bad. And shes admited to liking me a little a few times, but she'll be obsived with a guy she can't get with. And she called me a few days ago and asked me questions about how she looks and why guys diss her....Check my other questions for more deatails. BUT i do think of her alot, but i don;t want to go out with her.
2007-01-29 17:17:44 · 7 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the girl sounds like she's using u to boost her ego on the days when she feels like nobody wants her. dont let her use u. if you dont like her personality then DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS. better ones do come along.
2007-01-29 17:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a guy who says he doesn't want to go out with her, you sure seem to be preoccupied with it. Either this girl intrigues you, or your present options are slim. Think about which one of the two it really is. This girl sounds like she has serious self-esteem issues. What you really should be doing (if you care to) is just talk to her and try to be there for her as friend- nothing else. Don't get emotionally involved with someone who's not emotionally stable because if things don't work out you may actually do more damage to her and you will only feel guilty in the end. She needs someone's approval and for some reason, she chose you to give it to her. She feels safe with you, that's why she asks for your opinion and trusts you enough to ask these type of questions as vulnerable as it makes her. At this point, show her that you can be there for her as a friend when she needs one, but don't become more involved because you'll be playing with fire. Talk to other girls and keep her around. Advice from the opposite sex can be pretty helpful in dating situations. Who knows, she may become your best friend. If she's too insecure though (it sounds like she is) it's better to drift a little. She won't learn to be strong if she keeps using you as a crutch.
2007-01-30 01:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rock, Paper, Scissors 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must like her or you wouldn't ask about her, you might need to sit down by yourself and be true with your feelings about her. And you do have a lot of questions about her, so that should be a hint.
2007-01-30 01:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by CHRISY B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are. I thought you just said you were going to be single for a while? That was quick.
2007-01-30 01:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking "US" if you like her. I think you already have your answer.....
2007-01-30 01:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by slavetofs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a wacko. you sure you like her?
2007-01-30 01:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U DO
2007-01-30 01:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by SDT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋