Dating with the best guy who was a player but then seetled.I thought it was love one year.Got caught cheating in front of me.When,he saw me he just started to cry then was kicking me to get my attention.I stopped talking to him but he thinks that I will return because I love him.I do love him but am so lost help me.
2007-01-29 17:16:09 · 24 answers · asked by kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know I'm not a man, but i want to help u anyway, this guy is lying i know tat u may have fallen in love with him , i have gone through exactly the same thing, dated a player fell in love with him caught him cheating he promised he'd never do it again but then i caught him doing it again, this kind of guy i was completely in love with him, but it hurt me so much to be in love with him, so i forced myself to stop loving him and now everything is SO much better i stopped returning his calls and i told him that its over, now i am single and proud many guys looking out for me , many guys that are much better than him ,,,a player, so Wat u should do is just give him space for the time being and if he really loves u and is sure that he wont cheat on u again he will call u bak and tell u he would do anything to be with u, tell him to put his msn my space and everything or even anounce in the school paper or something that he loves u and only u and that he will never cheat on u again. or make him do something bizare to prove his love to u.
i sure hope this helps =)
2007-01-29 17:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by cute_lil_surfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my oppinion it is a matter of values, some people believe that once someone has done you wrong you need to forget them and move on, others believe that you should forgive.
Try to imagine the best moment you ever had with him, and try to imagine the worst. If you had to share both of those moments again would the good overcome the bad?
From what I can see is that, he cheated and was caught red handed, he admitted he enjoys playing the game, what makes you believe the crying and kicking is not just an act?
Ultimately the decision is yours, I do not know him, but if it was me I would not be the one to forgive and move on that easily...
2007-01-29 17:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do some guys have to be such pigs! Honey, I’m sorry this jerk did this to you. You’re too special and wonderful to allow anyone to treat you this way. If he did it once, he’ll just keep on doing it to you and every other women that comes into his life. My advise, is let him go and let the healing begin, don’t return for more hurt and disappointment. You deserve much better then him!
2007-01-29 17:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by G. H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Done that..... I got caught like that. The problem is this, or at least it was for me, I could not stop cheating because she was not the right woman for me. You may not be the right woman for him, so if you stay with him, keep that in mind.
I am sorry you are hurting.
2007-01-29 17:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him - you love the excitement he gives you because he is such a bad boy. Go find a nice guy who will respect your - or just leave yourself ready for this guy or the excitement you think you are getting from the next bad boy who comes around.
Good Luck!!!
2007-01-29 17:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The keyword you said was DATING . You are only Dating!!
Dating is not Married. So, if you wanted him to only be with you, you tell him so. If you told him a long time back that you want to be the only one, and then he breaks the commitment, then break up and DATE someone else,
2007-01-29 17:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by BIGDAWG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more than just love to make a relationship work. Among other things you need respect. Clearly, he does not respect you. You walked away... keep walking until you find someone more worthy.
2007-01-29 17:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by ailolyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 05:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by coratello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you caught him cheating on you this means that he was interested to get in your pants and not your heart.
he is expecting that you will forgive him
he may be sincere or again wants to get in your pants
so think again before you say anything !!!
hope every thing goes well....
2007-01-29 17:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a man to ur rescue
we all make mistakes and we all need a second chance
but don't take my word for it follow ur heart and ur inner voice.
ask ur self this does he really love u ????
2007-01-29 17:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by answer man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋