ok there is my problem.....
i like this guy and everyone says he likes me too ...(haha u might be thinking so what is the problem)
well there is the problem.....i think he likes this other girl too and i think she likes him as well......(no u are thinking , this is pathetic)
so me being pathetic lol......want to know if there is anyway to know who he likes more.....(now u are thinking, repetitive question)
but anyhow i VERY SAD by all this and i am not sure what to do about it?
i know that guys are fickles sometimes but he is like trying to be with two ppl....sigh...i don't like being a third wheel or something
oh... we are all single so nothing much is happening.... except i think he is dating both girls(me and someone else)
i am 18 and we are all in the same university but i don't have any classes with him and she does .....boo hoo ....this sucks :(
i am desperate for someone to ans
thx to anyone that ans
2007-01-29 17:14:12 · 3 answers · asked by confused 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Threaten the girl to stay away from your man! Especially if it is the same girl who pissed you off in your earlier posting.
2007-01-29 18:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first dilemma that I see is generalizing that all "guys are fickle sometimes", this is not a characteristic trait soley among men.
second, you need to ask yourself how much in your eye's do you matter to yourself. If you are not looking for something serious, then that's fine, continue going out on dates every now and then, but if you are looking for a commitment from this, then you need to look harder in yourself and what you are willing to put up with.
I mean really, why would you put with either knowing or having a suspicion that he is dating someone else, it's like he's in a game show picking what's behind door 1 or 2.
The sad (not pathetic) thing is; is that you're allowing it to happen; You are participating in this game show, and what will you win, someones heart that obviously is not fully yours.
I have always had a philosophy concerning my heart, because my heart is very important to me, it helps me feel, care and love. So when choosing someone to share my life, or hoping that another choose me to share theirs, I want their whole heart, not half mine and half to someone else, and if it is half and half, I have the courage, the strength, the respect for myself, and the love for myself to help them choose the other, I will choose for them, because I deserve someone's entire heart.
This is what you need to discover for yourself, the strength to love yourself so much, remeber not being conceded in oneself, but loving yourself enough to know that you deserve better, that you deserve someones entire heart.
Remember this; there are too many guys in the world, find one that has the courage to stand up and be a man.
Last but never least, remeber that you are a strong, intelligent, beautiful young woman, make the right choice for yourself.
Michael
2007-01-29 19:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can't really be a third wheel. I think you should start talkign to him and hang out with him before the other girl does! I think i have the same problem but its his ex girlfriend who still loves him..but now i'm talking to him. just because you don't have class with him doesnt mean he isnt going to liek you more. i have no classes with the guy i'm interested in but his ex does so it's kind of awkward being in this situation. i hope you get him!
2007-01-29 17:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ashleigh D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋