Great American city. any suggestions?

Question

Hello All,
I am a 25 year old female currently living in the DC area. I have lived here mainly all my life and need a change. I would love to find a city where as a female I would feel comfortable and safe, people are genuniely nice and do not care if you are wearing Gucci or Prada, lots of outdoor activities but at the same time a great night life, and a fairly affordable cost of living. really do not have an interest in the north east or mid west.

while on this note: Has anyone just up and left? half of my family is here and the other half in CO. But the thing about moving for me is my mother. I am her baby out of five and it is going to be so hard for her. any motivational words to make sure I actually do it? or any suggestions that would make the move easier? thanks for your time.

Answer 1

Since you don't like the midwest (Chicago), I'd vote Seattle. It's outdoorsy but hip, it's by the ocean, and the people are genuine. There's world-class education, nightlife, dining, etc. It's by Canada when you want something different for the weekend. It's very, very beautiful.

I've lived in all areas of CA and MD, and spent time almost everywhere else in the country. Seattle is like a clean, wholesome version of San Francisco (cheaper too). It's a big enough city that you can get cheap flights to other cities/countries.

Answer 2

Well, you just precluded the best with that statement no Mid west city --too bad Chicago is what you are seeking. Do not mind being a hunk of meat try Dallas--all single woman get that approach there for "awhile'. Try Tucson Az.--slow compared to D.C. and few people know Prada or Coach from WalMart and Penny's-- Living is cheap as they come across each day looking for work, cook, house keeper, etc,.Buy a pair of round trip airplane tickets with open dates so can tell Mom/you will see each other for sure.

Answer 3

I'm 28 and I lived in Raleigh, NC for 7 years (mostly for college, but stayed there for a few years afterward). I moved there from Maryland, not knowing anyone and I absolutely loved it. The city is cute, but fast-paced enough not to drive you crazy with boredom. It's a college-town to some extent, but only in certain areas, at certain times (namely near NC State campus during basketball season!) There's plenty of nightlife for singles, such as restaurants and bars on Glenwood Ave. or live music and shows in Chapel Hill. But it's the people in Raleigh that really sealed the deal for me--they're friendly, without being hokey. They're welcoming, without being cheesy and they're progressive, without being precocious. I have my own plans to move back to that city and convert some fellow Yankees to do the same. I'd highly recommend a visit to Raleigh and it's surrounding areas--and remember, it's only an 8-hour car-ride away from your parents!

I moved there without knowing anyone and I'll gladly move back, knowing my closest friends still live there. Good luck with your move!!

Answer 4

I would say move to some where like in Washington State or somewhere there about. My words of wisdom are: If you have lived in the same place all your life I say you deserve to move and stand on your on two feet. Moving is going to be good for your self it will make you ultimately happier.

Answer 5

Atlanta
Miami
Tampa

Answer 6

Not in the Mid-west?? that doesn't leave much, Memphis isn't really what I would call safe! Colorado isn't that bad if you stay in Denver, the 'burbs do suck.

Answer 7

Memphis is very nice, cheep for a big city, and people are outrageously nice. Look into it.

Answer 8

I want to say Buffalo, but it's North East.