Guys if you dated a girl for a short time but the relationship never went past kissing cuz she wanted to save herself for marriage, would you still talk/hangout with her even AFTER the relationship was over?My ex and I dated for one month then HE ended it. He knew I wanted to save myself for marriage, so we only kissed and cuddled. Now after one year he called me to see a movie with him, then after the movie he said he wants to "see me every once in awhile". Why? He doesn't wana date me but he wants to see me sometimes, what for & how does it benefit him?Guys if you do "hangout" with your virginal ex-girlfiends do you ever hope that she'll have sex with you?
2007-01-29 16:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he probably really likes you as a person, but doesn't want to be in an exclusive relationship because guys need sex. I know it sounds shallow and gross but we really need to get rid of a load every now and then, physiologically it has to happen one way or another. sex is the purpose for guys in girls ever getting together at all, and if there's no hope for that or there's no light at the end of the tunnel it's hard for us to want to continue, so that's probably why he broke it off., but he probably realizes he screwed things up with you, and at least wants to remain friends.
2007-01-29 16:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely this guy wasn't really out for the sex. He just likes you as a friend. He would like to get to know you very well before he feels like he can stay with you until marriage. I mean, how can he decide if he would want to stay with you until marriage, sometimes commitment scares guys. So just hang out w/ him and let him get to know you as a best friend relationship. However, if he wants to continue to kiss you and stuf when you aren't dating, I would tell him that you aren't comfortable with that if you aren't going to be dating and taking it serious.
2007-01-29 16:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to be commended for your decision to stay a virgin until you marry. He has thought about your decision and will probably respect your wishes because he wants to marry a virgin. That is he wants to marry a woman who has not been with men other than himself. The ultimate proof of trust, a trust that should never be broken because it cannot be repaired. Guys will try to bread that trust. So, hang in there lady even though a third of your girlfriends are giving it up. . . to their ultimate embarrassment and shame.
2007-01-29 16:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah, of course he wants sex with you and hopes you may let him. But that is true of any guy with any girl, he could also like hanging out with you as a friend even if there is no sex.
2007-01-29 16:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to hang out with you sometimes because that means he isn't your boyfriend so he can go have sex with other people. But he must like you or think you're cool enough to hang out with on ocassion anyways
2007-01-29 16:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-29 16:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Phlow 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that would be his reason !!!!
2007-01-29 16:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by firebirdstevev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋