I end up drinking or eating or having sex with guys I dont really care that much for and I feel all the more empty for it. It was my crappy attempt at feeling anything at all. I can calm myself down or relax myself to let anything through. I dont want to go through all this meaningless crap anymore. How do I learn to feel despite the pain?
2007-01-29 16:12:21 · 4 answers · asked by b 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yes they say that human beings do this very often these days. Young girls like you don't carry very much feeling or intensity with them throughout their daily routine, so you think that slamming a big d*** into your cervix repeatedly will restore some intensity into your life.
How do you learn to feel despite the pain? I would recommend exercising and eating healthy on a consistent basis. Get into martial arts and yoga, this will help to strengthen your character, it will keep you healthy on multiple levels, and you will develop an even better physique. You can develop a deep understanding of your life, and it will help to restore some intensity back into your life that isn't lost so easily.
2007-01-29 16:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Volunteer.
It makes us realize that we can have a positive effect on others. With volunteering in a good cause (tutoring others who have difficulty in school, tree planting, visiting the sick in the hospital, caring for a sick animal, so many...) it makes us focus less on our hurts and injustice and more on others.
In time, the pain will diminish. And you can share the lessons that you learned with others that may be in a similar situation.
2007-01-30 00:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by tranquil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a therapist to help you figure out how to make better choices for yourself. It takes hard work and a willingness to change.But it will be well worth the effort. Make the call as soon as you can.
2007-01-30 00:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to find something that makes you happy, something you like to do to fill that void.... it's hard if you dont know what makes you happy... i still dont. (aside from the family in my life) but you should try to find something.... like a hobby maybe. anything that you can do instead of doing the things you listed.....
2007-01-30 00:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by kunehu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋