Am I a hater if I don't like some girl whose my neighbor because she's everything I would like to be.
When everyone in the school is around her, they just compliment how beautiful she looks and whatever. I just Don't like that girl because she makes me feel insecure and that's why I don't like hanging out with her.
2007-01-29 15:41:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me just add, I'm secure and confident when that girl ain't around.
2007-01-29 15:54:08 · update #1
Its OK to hate, after all without jealously and hate, society would not be the same. Think of the Cold War for example, it was a competition between the US and USSR. They hated each other, which led to the development of great technologies.
2007-01-29 15:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Specter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you're a hater. But that's a good thing. Everyone's a hater, even the ostriches with their heads in the sand who won't admit it. You've got nothing to worry about, keep up the good work.
2007-01-29 15:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a hater...you are jealous...not a nice emotion to have.
My guess is she is as nice inside as she looks...that's why people like her...and you need to get over this unhealthy attitude. Why don't you try to be friends instead. You might learn some things from her.
You are "coveting" what she is and the friends she has. You need to get over this....and you can if you try...then you will have more friends too.
2007-02-06 14:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, now that is so not true. i myself am a cena hater but i don't post things telling how much i hate him. but that sandy person, if there is like a question about randy orton, that person will just be like randy orton sux. so, i am not saying that cena haters keep it to themselves, and randy orton haters tell everyone. i'm just sayin that it depends on the person, some cena haters keep to themselves, some tell everyone. and some orton haters keep to themselves and so tell everyone. it just depends on the person.
2016-03-29 09:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like yourself....not her. Your insecurities have caught up with you and has made you confuse your frustrations. You're not unworthy or any less than her.....it's just your perception that's clouding your judgement. Take a close look inside at what's going on........this girl has done nothing to harm you so there's no reason to purposely avoid her. Value yourself more than this.
2007-01-29 15:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise she has insecurities too. No matter how pretty you are there will always be some one priettier. No matter how smart, always someone smarter. Don't hate her ,focus on ways to improve your looks so you feel better. Looks are not everything.
2007-01-29 15:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just very insecure about yourself. Maybe you should try to become her friend and stop hating. To hate takes so much energy there are better things to do with that energy.
2007-01-29 15:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only hate her so no. But try to like yourself more and you will not feel so insecure about her. You can dislike anyone.
2007-01-29 15:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is the definition of being a hater
2007-01-29 15:51:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are understandable. So no, you're not a hater.
2007-01-29 15:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Death.Note.fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋