i'm getting mixed signals from this guy...?

Question

so i met this guy at uni back in november and there seemed to be this connection, and we ran into each other every so often and it was always the same...a connection, but no one willing, ready to make a move, so i told him that i wanted to hang out, and he said sure and invited me over for breakfast/a chat b/c he was leaving the country that day...we had a good time, talked for a while and when i was leaving he asked for a hug, which i gave, and i was going to pull away but he held on...so we made plans to go hang out when he got back...well we got back after break and i asked him a couple weekends ago if he wanted to hang out and he said he couldn't that weekend. i said ok and to tell me when, but he hasn't said anything since. should i ask him what's going on? if he wants to get to know each other better? or should i just forget about it?

Answer 1

Ask or you will wonder for ages. Just tell him you are keen to hang out but you understand if things have changed while he was away. Depending on that goes. Have a specific plan of something you can do so you don't fell awkward trying to work out what to do. I.E. You make a suggestion, if he doesn't like it, no problem, what does he suggest. If he just says he doesn't feel like it, you will probably have to let it go. But communicate as if you life depended on it, because it's good practice for communicating about a whole lot more stuff later on.

Answer 2

be persistant he might really have plans or be busy but let him know you still want to hang out

Answer 3

HEY GURL... I SAY GIVE IT ONE MORE TRY I MEAN HE COULD BE BUSY AND ALL BUT IF HE DOES NOT MAKE ANY EFFORT OR MOVE YET JUST LET HIM BE ..,.. ITS PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA

Answer 4

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Answer 5

just be cofident