I talk about him all the time and I am sure my friends are getting sick of it. We have had our share of highs and lows. We went out once but he had issues and calling it off didn't end so well. We still kept talking like everyday and became extremely close while he straightened out his life. He kept telling me we could possible have a second try. His father died I went to the funeral sent him a card and talked to him telling him I was there for him but he didn't accept my offer and found someone new. I sent him a letter for closure then a week later he tells me it is over between them that she left him. In my heart I think he is perfect for me so even though he wronged me I believe we are meant to be together and want to give it another shot. Tonight online I asked him to tell me straight out that he had moved on and no longer had feelings for me but unfortunately he wasn't near his computer.He has had a lot going on in his life and he just needs someone to make him happy...
2007-01-29 15:27:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and I so badly want to be that someone and know that if I was given a shot I could be. But, I have been through the times where I have told my friends he is awful and I hate him to the times where I have said I love him. My friends don't really think good things of him. I just think he left me because he was confused and sad about his father's passing and didn't know what to do. Should I just move on? Or do you think that if I think he is perfect for me I should stick it out and see how he feels?
2007-01-29 15:29:38 · update #1
I forgot to mention when he told me she left him he said to me you must be happy.
2007-01-29 15:33:35 · update #2
He isn't stupid so he knows u could help him, but he is kind of rejecting your offer. Maybe he thinks that he doesn't deserve happiness after his fathers death, or that he'll never be happy again. Just wait it out, when he wants to let it out and feel happy again he will come to you and let it out to you. Good Luck
2007-01-29 15:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by LALALALALALALA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to leave it along for right now, he is going thorught something ,is possible that maybe down the way you
can talk again. but for now just take it slow, if he really want to
get with you he will. he may just need time and space so just
give him that and then see how things go. but dont just wait
around for him he may come back or he may not.
2007-01-29 23:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋