ok, Kelsey and I have been freinds for over a year now......weve been best buddies, and recently(after being help captive by an angry guerilla girl) i discovered that I really like kelsey. me and her would be perfect for each other, but since we have such the best freindship ive ever had.......i dont want to ruin it, because if i break her heart. i couldnt be here freind no more....what should i do please.
-Kory
2007-01-29 15:15:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youll regret what you dont do, so you can either take risk and have a great friend ship or take a chance on a different road
2007-01-29 15:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be proud your not a ******. Then, what better person to be with than someone who is a good friend. What do you want some slut that turns you on but has no brain in her head? If you don't want to ruin your relationship with her, than don't sleep with her. Wait till you are married. It is okay, you know, to love someone and not sleep with them till you know the time is right. That will give you time to see if one or the other is a slut or not. If you can love each other and get along without sex, then, and only then, do you have grounds to even consider marriage and sex. I'm not saying you can't kiss. But don't be such a pervert. You can wait. She'll respect you for it, and you will respect her for it. If she can't do it, you'll know she's not the one for you anyway. Do you really want to be with a slut who only cares about sex? Just because you have been friends with her for a year doesn't mean you jump into sex. I am assuming that you are in school still. That is no put down or anything. I am just older and I can read things. That is why it is important that you take this advice. Because you are not going to get good advice from your buddies. Trust me on this. If this girl is as nice as it sounds like she is to you, you don't want to screw this up. Use the big head first, then the little head. That's part joke, 100% serious.
2007-01-29 23:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually i say go for it!! I liked my best friend brandyn but he lived far away and we would hang out usually on weekends well he didnt show a lot of interest and i decided to go out with someone else.. well a few days later my best friend confessed his feelings for me and we have been together ever since.. going on a year and 15months. So try it!! You never know what can happen. And if you are as close as you say you are and it doesnt work, there shouldnt be hard feelings. Unless someone messes up badly. But you gave it a shot and in the long run you should stay friends.
2007-01-29 23:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by kassie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all if you like her and shes your bestest friend, chances are you wont break her heart (you'd do anything to not).
but hey, if you like her. it may be great. but first of all, try to find out if she likes you too. you know drop little hints, like flirting more than normal or something to see how she reacts before you come out and tell her. some of the best relationships start out as friendships, so this may be really good.
you shouldnt worry whether or not you guys will make a good pair right now, becuae if you both like eachother.. youll never know what going out would be like until you try it. and if you dont, you'll probably regret it. and if you are as good of friends you say you are, nothing can ruin the friendship that you had before, you may have to work to get it back if things dont work out. but it is possible.
good luck and gooo get her!!
2007-01-29 23:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by danielley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find out if she likes you the same way and if she does ask her out but before you do make a deal with her that no matter what happens you will always be friends and remember treat her right shes your friend
2007-01-29 23:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Buddy, believe me, there is no point in running after girls. All they want is someone to bear their expences. There is no such thing as love & frendship as far girls are concerned.
Remember, never run after buses, trains & girls. You run after them and you miss them, you stand at your place and you get another.
2007-01-29 23:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Soldier 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should do what you heart says. make sure it's not a rebound from the guerilla girl and go in for it whole heartedly. yay olive!!!
2007-01-30 00:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by hot blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. Do your work. Don't think about the result. Try talking to her. If she is your true best friend, she will be able to understand you.
2007-01-29 23:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by musicinme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm suggesting you should try and keep the crush low and still be friends. Trust me, I blew my friendship with my "boyfriend". Just keep it low until you realize that she likes you more than her friend.
2007-01-29 23:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by clandestine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you start a relationship with FRIENDSHIP stay there for her and always watch her reaction, what does she do when you hug her?You can build a great life with someone who started out as your friend,but remember she knows all your secrets
2007-01-29 23:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋