ok theres this guy that he loves me and i love him. I don't want my parents to know about him until I get older. Now i want him to stop mailing me and boathering me whole the time. I want to get rid of him, but I can't and you know why, because his not letting me, his saying that don't live me alone i love you, im telling him that theres llot of girls out there but he keeps saying that your the one. What should I do to get rid of him and be normal I don't want to have bf until I get 18. Help me please.
2007-01-29 15:09:33 · 6 answers · asked by Gayane P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'd stop emailing you if you'd stop emailing back.
You send him one last email saying it's over and that you mean it, that you're going to delete any future emails he sends unread then REALLY do it, don't even read the emails he sends. Delete them unread. If you read them, he'll trick you into writing back to him or otherwise contacting him. He'll either make some threat or something else. However, if he sends emails and gets no reaction then he'll get the hint.
If he doesn't get the hint and comes to your house or starts harassing you by phone or whatever, then call the cops on him! That's stalking and it's illegal.
2007-01-29 15:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him why push so hard to get rid of him and want him to be with someone else? Your parents should understand but if they would not then don't tell them, they can just think your friends and you act as such around them. If you did not want a boyfriend before 18 then why go out with him at all if that is what happened. You can not hide your feelings and act like they don't exist. By pushing him away and into another woman's life it pretty much says to him that you really don't care or love him. Love is very complex, I hope it works out the way it is meant to.
2007-01-29 23:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're on the right track not wanting a boyfriend but this boy sounds like trouble. If he really loved you he'd respect your feelings. If he keeps this up I'd tell your parents. Not the whole thing but enough to get him off your back. His behaviour is more stalker than anything else.
2007-01-29 23:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by blood_drop2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good of you to think about yourself like that. You shoud wait until then. Let him know that he will get you and himself in trouble if he keeps insisting on doing this now. Just remid him that you are underage and can get jailtime for this. I'm sure this will bring him to what little senses he has.
2007-01-29 23:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by **brainy licious**J;-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont follow what your mind wants all the time, follow your heart, and if you dont feel for him be truthful with him and set things straight
2007-01-29 23:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Smiley 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think wat u should do is just tell him exactly how u feel and want to do and den just tel him that u want to be good friends for now and if he really likes u and really wants to be with u den he will wait for u. dats wat i think and dats wat i would have done
2007-01-29 23:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by ~janna~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋