You see ive been dating this guy for 3yrs i love him very much he loves me very much, we haven't have real sex and we plan on getting married soon and lately we have been talking about having oral sex and i want to im just kinda nervouse... should i be? like any tips? no rude comments please.
2007-01-29 14:58:15 · 25 answers · asked by yadira 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can go to cosmo's website, they have all the tips on oral sex that you need...
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexoral/topics/0,,4thd,00.html
Just relax and only do it if you really want to...
2007-01-29 15:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not . If you lasted this long before marriage why ? You love him and he love you. Wait until your marry-ed. This premarital and oral sex is being over blown in our society. Since Former President Clinton did oral sex does the rest of the country have to follow? Try not to put pressure on both of you. You have a true loving relationship don't blow it ( no pun intended) on oral sex. tried to work this relationship out with talking about it. I think myself oral sex degrades women!
2007-01-29 15:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait until you get married. Sex is sex, whether it's oral or not. Any time of sexual activity outside of the walls of marriage is displeasing to God. If you wait, it will be that much more meaningful. Plus you have a lifetime together, so there's no need to rush.
2007-01-29 15:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you'll both are in sincere and true love and you'll trust each other (healthvise), do not feel nervous in diving in. But..... just a word of caution about getting pregnant, before marriage, if you'll migerate into actual intercourse from oral sex, which is bound to happen.. So please take care and enjoy yourself with your loved one, in limitations for the time being!
2007-01-29 15:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by Yellowstone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u haven't had sex yet what makes u think that u r ready for oral sex? Oral sex is just that, its not passionate or even meaningful. Its another form of 4play for some people. This is something u really need to think about, becuz once u do it there is no turning back. Its obvious that the 2 of u haven't had sex for a reason, so y should oral sex be the first move that u make? Ask urself if oral sex is really "special"?
2007-01-29 15:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't be nervous just take it easy at first till you get use to the size and find out what he like's to have done and you feel comfortable doing and you can swallow which i prefer or keep a rag nearby to dispose of it.You may not like the taste at first.
2007-01-29 15:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by stevieb030369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yadira:
I would say to wait until you are married because you have waited this long. You sound to be vary religious so while you can research it on the internet, I would say I would wait, then you can just do it all at once. I think that is what you want to do because you say you feel nervous about it.
Regards,
Pablo
2007-01-29 15:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you shouldnt do anything period, something tells me you are religious and might have a bit of a conflict with the concience.
oral sex perse is not wrong infact helps alot because requires less phisical effort and is a great way to prevent unwanted pregnancies.
2007-01-29 15:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y dont u just what till marriage because oral sex is still considered sex because of the fluid from one person is in the other.
2007-01-29 15:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by kittynigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you want to determine out what oralize potential, perchance you meant verbalize. even as something is verbalized it potential something change into spoken about. speaking about it really is verbalizing your ideas and evaluations on the topic. even as toddlers are dealing with an oral level it signifies that they are putting issues of their mouth. it really is the most perfect way i will arise with to describe the version to you because I dont understand your age.
2016-10-17 04:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by mcgoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're smart you will wait. I will not try to tell you what you should or should not do...that is a moral decision and has to be up to you. But, it sounds as if you have remained pure during the three years before now, so why spoil things as long as you will be married soon anyway. If he and you have waited this long, you can wait a little longer. It will be worth it. Good luck.
2007-01-29 15:04:55 · answer #11 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋