I get all nervous and jitterty? I have high self system and confidence but I always get up getting weird???? I think I'm pretty but I dont why this happens??
Its, like I dont feel good enough for a cute/ hot guy. Someone takes him right out of the blue. Why is this? What should I do????? I dont know how to make a good conversation with a guy. Where should I start?
2007-01-29 14:26:20 · 11 answers · asked by raging_masscare 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys, not just their looks but their personally too :)
I get nervous to talk to him when I see a good looking guy with a charming personally
2007-01-29 14:32:33 · update #1
Maybe you are a bad person, and you have low value in personality. you are in denial. you are not confident.
2007-01-29 14:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wuuut? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can join the ranks of the millions of young, nervous and jittery kids who have exactly the same issues you have questions about. There are no set answers--only suggested ideas---pretty and whatever has nothing to do with it. You need to find your self confidence and determination. You need to understand that this is nothing that you can just change by tomorrow. You need to remember that as an individual, you have inner qualities that you hope people will find if they care to see the real YOU. So self confidence, integrity, self respect, humor, courtesy, appearance all come into this action. And if you are all at a young age---boys and girls mature and socialize at different speeds and levels---you just need to be at ease with yourself and smile---be nice and hope the boys are attracted--if not--move on and you will find someone who is--its only dating---its not a forever thing. He won't bite, so give it a shot. He probably will be just as nervous---if you make a booboo--laugh it off. As an individual. you have talents and interests that you can share IF a boy is interested in talking about it...if not, may be he isn't right and why waste the time. Be a GOOD LISTENER too. Dress appropriately...act like a lady, keep your dignity and respect---have fun and this will all work out---SMILE
2007-01-29 19:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you gotta' remember: some of those foxes are complete duds on the personality/values/respect level; until you find out differently, don't assume their looks is equivalent to decency. Think about this when you see guys like that, maybe that'll bring down some of your nervous tension.
2007-01-29 14:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might help you to know that guys and girls feel the same way, it's awkward at first but once you get past the first hurdle things settle down and follow a natural course. Relax, be yourself and maintain that high self-esteem because fellas have a tendency to take advantage of those who lack it.
2007-01-29 14:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by ralegas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange... Well if you feel confident you should just start talking, chances are you're more than good enough.
2007-01-29 14:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel nervous because deep down in that little heart of yours, you wonder if hes the one, even if you dont know him
2007-01-29 14:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start looking for beauty in the right places and u will find it
2007-01-29 14:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club :)
2007-01-29 14:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lorina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each and every of the adult men might wanna be with u.s. they dont want u to be gay and that they have got no thought a thank you to tell u cuz they ar skeered...........in line with threat........guess we would have 2 be there.......
2016-11-23 13:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by corral 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? because things liek that change with age
2007-01-29 14:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Captin Obvious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋