I'w been an dating with one girl for almost two years. We got together when i was 19. and we love each other. But problem is my friends want me to stop my relationships basically dump her. They saiyn that you have to move one and date other girl and have sex with other girls while you young. I don't know i disagree. first of all i llove her and she loves me and i do get a lot of sex. Why should i change and get an expirience. Any way my question is should i or shouldnt i dump her. deeply in my heart i don't want to and i don't feel like to. Maybe because i don't know i'm still young and i don't understand something even though i'am 21 Thank you very much for your help and Take care Bye
2007-01-29 14:24:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And yes this girl was my first. I kissed her for the first time and had sex for the first time. Maybe this will help.
2007-01-29 14:27:54 · update #1
i know 19 years old lost his Virginity LAME I know.
2007-01-29 14:28:45 · update #2
If you have a good relationship with her , then why mess up a good thing? They are just jealous of your relationship with her!
2007-01-29 14:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by nOna9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are giving you bad advice. If you are in a relationship with a person you love and feel happy with, why ruin that just to get more experience in bed with other girls??? If she is the one for you, she's the one! Your friends sound like they like to play the field and don't have alot of values. You obviously do and you should stay true to yourself and listen to your heart and not your friends...
My husband only slept with one other girl besides me and we've been together since 1995, married for 9 years and have five kids...it's not about how many people you sleep with. It's all about love...
2007-01-29 14:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You friends sound like immature jealous jerks! why would you ever think about giving up someone you love for meaningless sex with someone? Sex is only sex. It means nothing if you don't love them. All your going to do is lose someone that you love and put yourself in a dangerous situation of getting an std by sleeping around. People want what you have! Listen to your heart not your friends who will only bring you down!
2007-01-29 14:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by ChristinaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To bad you're taken. I'm sure all your online answers will be something along the lines of, hang in there. You are both very lucky and should stay together. Sounds like a forever love relationship. Tell your friends to back off!!
2007-01-29 14:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to them. U can still party and have fun but the best part you have a girl by your side that you are still with. You can have all the fun you want. But don't throw your friends away...Just tell them to fall back...of ur relationship and change the subject. At least you won't catch an STD.
2007-01-29 14:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tamikia J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to block out watever ur friends are saying and listen to your heart..
it sounds like u truly care for this girl and u two are really good for each other. i think if ur getting all the pleasure from this girl then y would u need to have sex with other girls
we cant make this decision for u ...u have to do wat u feel is right in the end but dont let your friends influence u
2007-01-29 14:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by dani W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl myself just bcause ur friends told u to try somthin new dousn't mean u have to, y don't u just think of wut would happen if u did break up w/her! I just got out of a bad relationship bcause my friends told me to dump him 4 another guy well the other guy ended up breaking my heart by cheating on me and every moment i wasted w/the other guy i was thinkin bout my 1st 1! And trust me i still want him back thinkin bout the times when i was w/him! So i regreted everything that i did cause my friends told me 2! So plz even though i don't know u i know wut situation ur in and think bout wut ur fixin to do b4 u do it!
2007-01-29 14:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a bad relationship then yes, dump her. But if it is good, your friends need to shut their mouths. It is hard to find an honest good person that you love and that loves you. I wouldn't throw that away for anything..
2007-01-29 14:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny this is advice that is only given to men, women aren't usually encouraged to "see what else it out there." If you love her and she makes you happy sexually and emotionally there is no reason to look for someone else. Your friend might be projecting his jealously onto you.
2007-01-29 14:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by JT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to ur friends.....they just want u to be like them...but ur not...u dont have to go around sexing every thing thats walking....peopel would kill to have something as good as u got it.
dont f*ck it up over some buddies
i bet they wont have sex with u they way she does.
so liek i sed if u have something go stick with it
DONT GO CHASING WATER FALLS (corny i kno but the song is true)
2007-01-29 14:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by Captin Obvious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋