One day after class I walked with this girl completly out of my way talking to her and she talked too. She knew I was going the wrong way because I told her. At the end of the walk I asked her if she was seeing anyone. She said no and of course then knew I was interested in her. I asked her out to dinner and she accepted. The problem is we don't have time. I gave her my number last friday and told her to call me whenever. She worked all weekend though. So now............ what should be my next step? Should I sit back and wait a week, or get more bold. If I get more bold how should I go about it?
2007-01-29 14:22:15 · 18 answers · asked by Irockdapartay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has a full time nursing job. I am a part time manager for a construction business.
I do not have her number nor am I going to ask for it. I think I will wait until Friday and then walk with her to her next class again. I like the idea about just hanging out. She likes to go to clubs so I think I will start by asking her for a drink.
2007-01-29 14:41:17 · update #1
Let her know that you would still like to take her out and find out when would be the best time for her to be able to go out. Once you know that information then you can maybe change your schedule so that you can make the time to take her out if you are truly interested in dating her...
2007-01-29 14:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely she has some time off sometime. Instead of a dinner date, try a morning date or afternoon. Take her to breakfast at IHOP and do a Saturday morning movie or something. Or just have lunch. Keep it very simple at first. It may take awhile for you to have the opportunity for a nice long evening together. Plan ahead and ask her out a week or two in advance and ask her if she can possibly get off work some Saturday night. Your patience will be rewarded.
2007-01-29 22:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more persistent (but not too annoying). Take what chances you can get, not necessarily dinner. Walk her home after class or find more available times you both are free. Take what you can get, and start from there. If she's really interested, you will both find the time later!
2007-01-29 22:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by citygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she really "busy"? if she is, be more bold but don't scare her away. Just talk to her at school or walk her home again and ask if she's busy this weekend too. or maybe, since it's basketball season, you could take her out to dinner and then watch ur school's game. make sure she knows it casual and she shouldn't be freaked out.
2007-01-29 22:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm it really depends on her.... what type of girl she is...but here is what i would like from a guy who likes me or is trying to learn more about me...I would expect him to call and joke around...see if I am still alive ask me if i can take time away from my busy schudele to have a few drinks and just relax...i mean have you been blowing up her phone? IF not than what is wrong with one little ole phone call..its not like she didnt give you the number...so i say call and play like you cant believe she is alive...lol my boyfriend used to do it to me when I said i was busy and it got me in the mood to see him...or want to be un busy so i could spend some time with him
2007-01-29 22:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by chanel_mitchell06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for a few days, if she is still busy then she might be stalling or really is busy, but you should be bold after that point anyways, talk to her and try to get a settled date of the dinner when shes not busy.
2007-01-29 22:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see her ask her to a movie or out to dinner. Ask her when would be the best day anf time for HER.
2007-01-29 22:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls always love when the guy puts his foot forward in a ralationship or a realationship that has just started. Keep letting her know that you are still very intrested. If you wait she might not think you are as intrested as she thought.
2007-01-29 22:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres what i would do, ask her when she have some free time, and make time for her, and let her know u made time for her. Try to make it known that you are really interested in her and are willing to make some sacrifices to be with her.
2007-01-29 22:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't be anymore bold just wait it out and she'll call you besides if a week goes by and no call you know why (not interested since you obviously said you were)
2007-01-29 22:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by teinegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋