please read, about cancer, if you have advice that would help too.?

Question

My mom went into the Dr. the other day complaining of stomach cramps. A hospital stay and lots of tests later they found a mass on her pancreas and spots on her liver. Theyre going to get the results of whether it's cancerous or not soon. I pray to God it isn't, you dont know how hard i pray. I didnt ever used to pray, but when shoved face to face with a life threatening illness, you start to. You start to hope, and pray,and wish, and try to make bargins with God. Ill do this or this if you just let her live till old age. Id do anything for her...Anything if it just meant that she would get better. Id take her place if i could.
Everyone takes their parents for granted, including me, and i feel like crap for doing so. I used to get so upset with her for trival things, now it doesn't matter. It should of never mattered, i was just to selfish and to big of a ***** to realize it. I dont want to lose her like this. A mom is supposed to help plan your wedding, help decorate your house, and help name your grandchildren, and make life just a little more difficult in between.
All i can think about now is going home and taking care of my family, not study stupid chemistry! If i could i would withdraw from all my classes and start at henry ford next semester, or wayne state or whereever, it wouldnt matter as long as i was close to home.
Look up Pancreatic cancer and see what you find, and tell me you wouldnt be scared too.
So i guess the point to this note was to ask anyone reading it please put my mother in your thoughts. Say a prayer, make a wish, do anything. I dont care if youre not religious, i wasnt really untill now. Ill do anything for a miracle. Please

Answer 1

Hey calm down.There are many ways to treat pancreatic cancer other than medicines.Why don't u try natural treatment.They cause no side effects,unlike medicines.Go check a natural health food product called NCD--Natural Cellular Defense--which was released in August 2005 in USA.It's still very new so many poeple don't know it yet.However,doctors have proved its amazing ability.They offered NCD treatments to about 75 different types of cancer patients including brain cancers,lungs cancers,kidney cancers,breast cancers.They were waiting for death after negative responses to surgeries and other common medical treatments.But then this NCD was a miracle to them.After taking the thing for about 2 to 3 months,65 of these patients have fully recovered from their cancers and this shocked the medical history for nothing other than medicines can have such a high curing rate--about 80 to 90 %--even higher than the most advanced medicines nowadays.
In Hong Kong where i live,there r uncountable cases of cancer patients who have recovered from or have great improvement on cancer.This NCD can cure all types of cancers.It's in fact a mineral substance emmitted from the volcanoes so it's 100%natural.There was a woman in St.Mary Hospital HK who had 4 types of cancers at the same time and was about to die after useless surgeries and harmful treatments that caused her dry mouth,loss of hair,weak bones that can snap every moment she walks and of coz great pain.She was then introduced to NCD.After about 3 months,she felt no pain anymore.Later,the medical report shocked the doctors by showing 87 % of her cancer cells were killed.
Yep that's it,u can check online about NCD or u can contact me at [e-mail] anytime u like so i can help u and ur mother like i've been doing to my family and friends.^_^God bless you.

Answer 2

sweetie that story put an extra prayer in my heart and another name on my prayer list! O how i feel for you God Bless you and your family I had a scare with uterine cancer and wasn't going to find out if it was benign or malignent until they did the surgery and myself and my family were terrified until the doctor told us all that it wasn't life threatening and they had caught it early and i wasn't even gonna have to have any treatments Well Hallelluah!! Praise the Lord and i hope you will have as great of a story to tell next time if we get to hear the results, hope u will let me at least know u can e-mail me if u want to and i will help u all i can and i tell u one thing the Lord really does answer prayers I am living proof!! God be with your Mother and your whole family!!! Get the Bible and read Ephesians chapter 2 verses:5-9. I hope these words will help u at your time of need especially for your Mom God Be There For this Family Please..... AMEN \
Alicia there are a lot of people on here that are going to be smart allects. Just try not to let it get at you ok!

Answer 3

Try not to worry until you get the full results. I dont like the sounds of liver spots as well as a mass on your mothers Pancreas because it may show that it has spread to other areas. If the cancer has spread the tumors block areas of the bile ducts causing jaundice or yellowing of the skin. I dont mean to be blunt but my sister just passed away with pancreatic cancer and was told she had 3 months left after a late diagnosis of cancer but prior to that she was told she had Gall stones which was not the case . She lived for 3 months and 1 week and was aged 47. Best of luck and try to be supportive and strong.

Answer 4

well i have been in your shoes and im still in them.my mom has breast cancer and my husband has mouth cancer and i have done the samething you have done with all of the promises.and i have changed i feel like i am a better person i treat my mom better now even though i dont get to see her that much now that my husband has cancer but it can change your life in a matter of minutes just that 1 word cancer i am still trying to keep all the promises i made to god i am working on them one at a time it has brought my family closer together .just keep working on the promise to god you cant do it all in 1 day and if it is cancer you do need to go be with your family i pray that it is not but just remember you only get 1 family you get more than 1 chance with school.

Answer 5

Alicia, I really feel for you.
Be brave for your mum, and whatever you do, don't give up.
The mass on her pancreas and spots on her liver might have been found soon enough and still might be treatable.
I said a little prayer for you and your mum, and whatever you do, please don't blame yourself.
Because it's no-ones fault. Things like this just happen, and blaming yourself like you did in the details of your question isn't going to help anybody, esecially not you or your mum.
Also, don't be afraid to cry. Keeping your feelings bottled up inside is just going to make you feel worse, it might help to not bawl your eyes out near your mum, but you can still cry...

My thoughts are with you, let me know if she gets better at:
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Answer 6

Try to forget your feelings and be there for her. Forgive yourself for whatever and just make this time special for her and the rest of the family. Life throws us curves. My dad passed away when I was 23. My mom has been gone over 4 years now. Say to her what you need to say and make her feel loved and cared about. That's what's most important then you'll have no regrets!

Answer 7

Thank you. That was quite a statement. WOW I am impressed. Seriously. Yes, I know what pancreatic cancer is--I had a dear friend die with it (also liver cancer and bone cancer) One good thing about my friend--she went fairly quickly. I do not want that for your mother but I do not want her to suffer, either. I will say a prayer for her--and you also. Best of luck and God be with you all.

Answer 8

Of course I will. Don't jump to conclusions yet, the results of the tests are not back yet. Never give up hope. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of need. God bless.

Answer 9

Here's your miracle friend; first look for "Dr Johanna Budwigs cancer diet, then www.geocities.com/hotsprings/1158mailbag.htm

also look up the "medicinal benefits of "flaxseed oil" Budwigs diet is cureing all kinds of "CANCERS" !! GOD BLESS.
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Answer 10

Noted and Roger, WilCo