Okay, so he is my first boyfriend. He has had two girlfriends before me. I am 15 and he is 16.
The Problem: I am so confused. Do I call him every night? Do I wait for him to call? The call records are:
He called on Wednesday, which is the day he asked me out.
I called on Thursday and Friday. I had to check up on some things.
He called on Saturday.
We went on a date and later out to dinner with some friends of both of ours. No one called.
So, now it's Monday and he hasn't called and neither have I. Should I? Should I wait for him? Do I seem clingy if I do? Argh! This is a dumb problem, but I am so confused.
WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?
Please answer quickly! I am running out of time. ARGH!
Thanks
2007-01-29 14:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by Kali 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is very simple.
Do you feel like talking to him? Then call him.
Unless you call him compulsively (several times a day) don't ever worry about it.
There are no rules on who calls when and folks who tell you that are just silly in my opinion.
2007-01-29 14:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by coppersmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, but not like every single day of your life. Occasionally or if you just want to chat real quick but don't call too much. Just say "Hey, can you talk now or is this bad timing?" when you feel unsure of calling him and talking. Or something like "Do I call too much?"
2007-01-29 22:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait a couple more days... if he doesn't call then you call. Hey, he might be going through the same thing that you are--- trying to decide if he should call or not.
2007-01-29 22:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Oublier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't call him multiple times a day, you won't come across as clingy. If you feel like talking to him, call him.
2007-01-29 22:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 15 - you are certainly NOT running out of time.
Don't call.
Take a chill pill or he'll run a mile.
Deep breathe, relax.
Now go to sleep.
2007-01-29 22:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Moz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id suggest u wait 4 dis guy 2 call!!!!!!!! cll him on wednesday nd ask him y he dint cll!!!! till den jst sit tight.... dnt wry.... wait till he clls....if he clls den ul kno hw much he cares... check if ders a change in d way hes tlkin b4 ur date n aftr... if ders den dts nt gud!!!!!!
2007-01-29 22:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by !!*mE*!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait to cal him. You don't want tobe too clingy or it will scare him.
2007-01-29 22:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is anything wrong you calling him tonight..
2007-01-29 22:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call
2007-01-29 22:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop playing games....
if you want to talk to him--call him. if you dont feel like talkign to him--dont call him.
2007-01-29 22:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by lovebugger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋