You'd better use your head that's what you should do ,,,, Looks to me like you have some things to think about ,,,, Like how much do you value your friends friendship against how much you like this girl ,,,, You sound like you are young ,,,, You are probably going to fall in and out of love a few hundred times before you are ready to really settle down ,,,, The romances in your life are going to come and go and your infatuation with this girl would just be one of them ,,,, You are probably going to change girlfriends as often as you change your underwear so maybe you ought to consider if she's worth loosing a friend over ?,,,, These infatuations won't last ,,,, especially as long as a friendship would ,,,, Pursue this girl and you won't have to worry about the situation between you and him anymore ,,,, Another thing you might consider is what if the shoe was on the other foot so to speak ,,,, What if you were the one with the girl and your friend tried to horn in on a relationship you had ? ,,,, How would that make you feel and how long would you continue the friendship ,,,, Remember what goes around usually comes around ,,,, Don't do anything now where this is concerned that you will regret later on ,,,, Of course if it's like you say and she likes you then you might consider just what type of girl she really is ,,,, She's supposed to be in a relationship with your friend but she's making eyes at you ,,,, How good is that for your friend ,,,, And if she's doing this to your friend now then what makes you think she wouldn't do the same thing to you ? ,,,, Pretty soon she'd move on to some one else after she got tired of you and there you'd sit ,,,, No girlfriend and no friend ,,,, Is she really worth all of this crap ,,,, You might consider doing your friend a favor and tell him what's going on because if she doesn't like your friend well enough then she will dump him eventually anyway ,,,, It's always best that you do the breaking up than it is to wait for someone to break up with you ,,,, That goes for your friend too ,,,, Never get between a dog and his meat and if the meat is rotten it's better to let the dog know ,,,, so to speak ,,,, ahead of time ,,,, If he doesn't believe you then at least you tried to warn him ,,,, He will learn two lessons out of it and it will be him that has to live with the consequences ,,,, Lesson number one is that he should maybe consider listening to his friends more and number two would be that this girl really is rotten ,,,, You'd most likely be greatful for a warning like this if the situation was reversed ,,,, You'd better give this situation plenty of thought from all angles before you make a move ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-01-29 15:40:13
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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