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Don't do anything, you will only end up hurting your friend. A good friend is not always easy to come by, but you will have lots of girlfriends throughout your life. Think about how you would feel if your friend liked your girlfriend and was wondering what to do about it.

2007-01-29 14:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by dcdcdcdc 5 · 1 2

You'd better use your head that's what you should do ,,,, Looks to me like you have some things to think about ,,,, Like how much do you value your friends friendship against how much you like this girl ,,,, You sound like you are young ,,,, You are probably going to fall in and out of love a few hundred times before you are ready to really settle down ,,,, The romances in your life are going to come and go and your infatuation with this girl would just be one of them ,,,, You are probably going to change girlfriends as often as you change your underwear so maybe you ought to consider if she's worth loosing a friend over ?,,,, These infatuations won't last ,,,, especially as long as a friendship would ,,,, Pursue this girl and you won't have to worry about the situation between you and him anymore ,,,, Another thing you might consider is what if the shoe was on the other foot so to speak ,,,, What if you were the one with the girl and your friend tried to horn in on a relationship you had ? ,,,, How would that make you feel and how long would you continue the friendship ,,,, Remember what goes around usually comes around ,,,, Don't do anything now where this is concerned that you will regret later on ,,,, Of course if it's like you say and she likes you then you might consider just what type of girl she really is ,,,, She's supposed to be in a relationship with your friend but she's making eyes at you ,,,, How good is that for your friend ,,,, And if she's doing this to your friend now then what makes you think she wouldn't do the same thing to you ? ,,,, Pretty soon she'd move on to some one else after she got tired of you and there you'd sit ,,,, No girlfriend and no friend ,,,, Is she really worth all of this crap ,,,, You might consider doing your friend a favor and tell him what's going on because if she doesn't like your friend well enough then she will dump him eventually anyway ,,,, It's always best that you do the breaking up than it is to wait for someone to break up with you ,,,, That goes for your friend too ,,,, Never get between a dog and his meat and if the meat is rotten it's better to let the dog know ,,,, so to speak ,,,, ahead of time ,,,, If he doesn't believe you then at least you tried to warn him ,,,, He will learn two lessons out of it and it will be him that has to live with the consequences ,,,, Lesson number one is that he should maybe consider listening to his friends more and number two would be that this girl really is rotten ,,,, You'd most likely be greatful for a warning like this if the situation was reversed ,,,, You'd better give this situation plenty of thought from all angles before you make a move ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,

2007-01-29 15:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

I would ask that you really think about the ramifications of pursuing your friends girlfriend. I can tell you from experience that nothing is worth the cost of a close friend, especially if it is in the pursuit of a relationship with the opposite sex. I've been on both sides or the fence. It's not worth the pain caused to others and to yourself. You can always find a girlfriend. Good, TRUSTWORTHY friends can be harder to come by.

2007-01-29 14:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff W 2 · 0 2

Just be her respectable friend. If things were meant to be she will see it and make the move by dumping him and giving you a chance. Don't say negative things about your friend and try to break them up, If they are not meant for each other then it will come around. It may take a while, but if you think she is the one then this will fly by and you will still be her friend and learn more about her on an honest basis. You will probably lose the guys friendship even if he dumps her, but then again, your not looking to go out with him.

2007-01-29 14:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by hyperbear 1 · 0 2

It depends on the level of your loyalty to your friend, if you've been through many things together in life and will one day admit to sacrificing your life for his, then man up and start liking someone else. Its not difficult if you know how to respect your friend/s. If he's just some friend you became cool with over a ball game or something, then take her from under his arms but run away and never turn back!!!!!!!!! ;) Good luck brother.....

2007-01-29 14:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0 2

ummm get over it! imagine how things would be for your friend! i was that friend last week! and let me tell you it does NOT feel good! you should NEVER do that to your friend. if they break up give it a little while and then you can ask her out. but dont make a move while they're together!

2007-01-29 14:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

Be a good friend, you will find many other girls you like too, if you and this girl get together chances are you will lose a friend, and hurt someone you care about.

2007-01-29 14:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 1 2

then if she likes u why is she still with ur friend. if she breaks up with ur friend then it is ok for u guys to like each other and u noe that too. but until, it is wrong if u try to go out with her. even if she breaks up with her bf, u should let ur friend noe u know kinda ask his permission just to keep the Peace between u guys.

2007-01-29 14:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0 2

Here's the deal. You have to decide who you want in your life 10 years from now. The girl or the friend. Probably the friend, but whichever it is, go with it.

2007-01-29 14:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

You got to be very honest with everybody and the truth will set you free. Because if you start going behind your friend back you'll you freindship for good and you now have a enemy to watch out for.

2007-01-29 14:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

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