My boyfriend and I broke up about 5 months ago because his parents said he wasn't responsible enough to have a girlfriend a few years younger than him. He said when he gets to college we will get back together and he said he was going to move on with his life. We no longer talk because it's so hard to be "just friends". It will be about a year and a half before we can get back together and my life is just not the same without him. I still love him and know in my heart I always will and I will always want to be with him. Should I wait for him or just get over it and know it is a fact of life?
2007-01-29 13:42:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Give yourself a chance to meet more people and live life! No sense waiting for him. He may have moved on as it is. If your paths do cross in the future, then that's the time to ponder the options once again.
2007-01-29 13:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, DEFINITELY move on with your life! Waiting will do you know good. Besides, you'll come across as more attractive and confident living your own life to its fullest.
If y'all end up back together after moving on, then it was meant to be. But, there could be someone else waiting in the wings. Don't limit yourself or your life for something that's not a 100% sure thing.
2007-01-29 13:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from experience that when two people break up it can be painful,however, life goes on. You said should you wait for "your true love", if he is your true love he will return. If he is not your true love he will "continue on with his life". A lot can happen in a year and a half. I don't believe you should wait on him, get on with your life. If it's "meant to be" it will happen. There are mixed signals being sent, "He said when he gets to college you two will get back together THEN he says he's going to get on with his life. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings,however, I believe he was trying to break off with you anyway without hurting your feelings. He must have sensed your sensitivity. No you should not wait on him, enjoy life and yes it's a fact of life. There will be joy and pain throughout life. Life is a learning experience in itself. Take care
2007-01-29 14:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is, you should move on. Particularly if he said that he was going to, as well. This doesn't mean that you don't have a future together but a year and a half is a long time. Let yourself move on, change, and grow. You might find that in that time, you find someone more suited for you or that you have grown out of your relationship with your ex. But, you absolutely need to let yourself change because he will. There will be no possibility of reconcilation if you don't find out more about who you are and what you want, in your time apart.
2007-01-29 13:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your exboyfriend, why not keep in touch? It really cant hurt. Actually it will help you stay connected to him.
Even though the two of you arent together right now, doesnt mean that you have to put your life on hold! Get involved with school and join some activities that you like or want to try. Hang out with your friends/family members and enjoy spending time with them. good luck
2007-01-29 13:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know breaking up is hard. You need to move on with your life now and eventually if things are supposed to be they will. A year and 1/2 is a long time to sit around and wait. Who knows what could happen in that time. Don't waste your life waiting on something, if its meant to be it will! Good luck!
2007-01-29 13:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by ChristinaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not responsible enough to have a girlfriend, I wonder what else he is irresponsible about. Did his parents just want him to consentrate more on his studies? Its important for his future to get a good education. There is no reason why you have to cut off all communication with him. If you feel he is The One, then wait. I think you should just get on with your life, keep in touch and see what happens. You may find that you were not ready to committ to just one person.
2007-01-29 13:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely move on - I know it's hard, but you'll feel so much better down the road. If what you both have is truly meant to be - it WILL be. Just keep busy, go out with friends, take good care of yourself. Best of luck to you!:)
2007-01-29 13:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time u talk to him mention it to him but it makes u wonder if he been thinking the same way u have but mention it and see how the convo go if he say he still need some time then move on but he is in college now not with his parents so its really no excuse
2007-01-29 13:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by lil lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋