meaning like gaining weight not caring about your looks hair is a mess and stuff like that.
2007-01-29 13:20:56 · 27 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all women are like that. I take care of myself, but maybe the ones you are referring to have a low self-esteem, and need some reassurance from someone to feel like they are worth taking care of.
2007-01-29 13:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by deedee6335@sbcglobal.net 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
ok, truthfully, most women take care of themselves. but concidering you are focusing on the ones that don't here is the reason why they don't. Most of them including my closest client, believes they don't have what it takes to attract a man, or spouse, so they give up hope and throw their looks out the window. they think they can't rely on that attribute for attraction so they look elsewhere in themselves. Another reason why they could not be taking care of themselves is because some women have the whole messy hair thing as a fashion statement, others don't have the choice or don't know how to take care of themselves. maybe because of their upbringing and their past they never had time to look after themselves and it just got carried throughout their life. these are just some of the reasons, but most of them to be truthful. hope it helps.
2007-01-29 13:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by teardrop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women do take care of themselves but sometimes a woman has no inspiration to look pretty or stay fit. She may look to food for closure because every man she has had made her feel mad or she is stressed. Sometimes a woman has no time to take care of her looks between kids and a job. Or a woman just has plain given up on trying to make herself look good because she doesn't fell good. Many women try to impress someone by taking extra care of their looks and find out the person they tried to impress shows no interest and then all motivation is gone because the woman wasn't doing it for herself in the first place. Women take care of themselves but sometimes they feel no reason to or have no time. You have no idea how insecure a woman can feel no matter how nice she looks. It all depends on the situation don't be quick to judge.
2007-01-29 13:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...I don't know about you but I think the same question can be asked to men.
The women I know take care of themselves, but to tell you the truth, even though I am fit, I like it when my hair gets a little messed up and I love my Nike tear-aways. Sometimes I just want to be me - without make up, hair in a ponytail, tank top...and you know, I think it is great that we don't always have to fuss. I feel like a REAL person. Live a little!
You may also want to consider that we aren't there for your entertainment and every woman has the right to be who she wants to be. I like looking sexy sometimes, and than there are times I like to look like I'm going out to do my errands, polish my car, etc.
2007-01-29 13:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That depends on the women! It can be alot of different things a women goes throught in life! We all can't be a size 4 and be prefect in all ways! If that was the case then we would be a barbie doll. It goes both ways men and women don't always take care of themselfes!
2007-01-29 13:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it often comes down to self esteem. Any one who doesn't take care of themselves usually doesn't care enough about themselves inside.
Another part of this is women sometimes feel they aren't important to their men anymore, so they don't bother to look good for them. Most men seem to be so wrapped up in themselves, and only consider what a woman looks like. Not caring about what is important to the female, not really listening. These things make a woman slowly get discouraged and say "to heck with it" who cares anyways.
2007-01-29 13:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by Joy K 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Same for men! Why should we women try to impress you? I mean if we're not a size 8 or smaller with perky **** than you aint gonna look at us anyway! Why's it okay for a man to get fat and be a slob but not a girl? I mean come on even you fat guys think you're above a chubby girl and think we're supposed to bust our butts starving ourselves counting calories and carbohydrates while you pig out. You have no idea what women go through to try and stay beautiful for you guys. You couldn't handle what we go through and you can't appreciate any of it. I have one thing to say to you A**HOLE...Pluck your eyebrows!
2007-01-29 15:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy of 2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they have a lot more going for themselves than looks. Maybe looks aren't everything to them. Maybe they just don't care what other people think, b/c they're happy with how their lives are anyway... it doesn't have to be about self-esteem and depression and all that... maybe they just don't care what people like you think about them.
2007-01-29 13:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This should be about people in general. Male and female. I don't know why anyone would not care about how they look. And then they whine about it... oh i am too fat ... so on and so forth... well no duh... do something about it! And no this does not mean those who are overweight because of heredity! We all have our feature flaws... all of us do. Some just choose not to do anything about the flaws they can improve on. It is about doing the best with what God gives you.
2007-01-29 13:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe her self esteem is low how about u give her a pamper day like get her hair nails and a nice outfit and take a few pictures so she can see how nice she look then maybe she would want to do it more often she may just need a lil boost
2007-01-29 13:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by lil lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋