I don't think what I do is any of his business, but because we're twins he thinks he should get to say whatever he wants. I want to get him back. Any ideas?
2007-01-29 13:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How do you dress? Look around at the other girls at your school and determine if you all dress close to the same style or if you dress more revealing the rest of them. If you do dress more revealing then stop it. It sounds like your brother is just concerned.
2007-01-29 13:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered that maybe your brother, being a guy your age, is concerned for you? I mean, he knows what guys your age think when they see a girl dressed in a certain manner...maybe he doesn't want guys looking at his sister that way. Maybe he's heard locker room talk about you and is trying to nip it in the bud (yes, guys talk, spread rumors, etc.).
Rather than thinking about trying to "get back at him" you should talk to him and ask him why he said what he did to your parents. Have a mature, open discussion with him.
It's not necessarily "fair" or "right", but we are all judged on our appearance from time to time. If you "dress like a hooker", then chances are there will be people who think you ARE a hooker (even if you've never even kissed anyone you can still get a reputation - and reps are REALLY hard to shake once people have their minds set). So do consider toning down your appearance. You don't have to dress like a little old lady or anything, but maybe think about how you'd like others to think of you.
Good luck! :)
2007-01-29 21:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by zoni_tonya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to dress on how you wish. In life we're given considerations of other people's thoughts. Sometimes is good and sometimes is not or maybe both. In order to really understand your thoughts you should questioning thoroughly because he may not speaking from his own interpretation, but his friends may have mention to him.
If that is the case you have to make some decisions on how you want males to view you. What you chose to wear is totally you own ways, even if brother or someone else's opinion sees you that way.
What is important is your freedom to dress on what makes you happy. I hope your brother is not being malicious, but only concern.
The best way to settle this matter is to comfort your brother in the presence of your family, and question him what does a hooker dress like and then give your version of what a hooker dress like.
My advice is to wait until you are 18 old and then this may less the intention in your family. I want you keep something very important in your mind. You are someone's daughter, and you are being love by concern people.
In their mind what they see of you showing deadly signs of becoming a prostitute. No decent loving parent can stand the thought of their daughter or son opening her/his legs for host of men to sperm them just for money.
If this is something you do want in your life, at least spare your family of future decisions, by moving away after graduation. This way they wouldn't see you on the corner or some where that's known to prostitution area.
If you were a mother, how would you want your daughter to dress?
God Bless.
2007-01-29 22:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if all the others girls wear almost or similar to what you are wearing then your brother is really a big busybody! If you are dressed more raunchly than other girls you have to tone down on you style but that doesn;t change the fact that your brother is still a busybody! What I tend to noe about brothers are that they usually have some kind of porn in their possesion or in their computer. Find that porn and rat it out to your parents. That wouls be sweet revenge!
2007-01-29 23:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by A A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, maybe you should consider how you are dressing. Yes, you can make your own decisions, but do them wisely. Dressing inappropriately will nto bring you anything good in life. It tends to attract the wrong guys and it may lead to you becoming a victim of sexual abuse. Just be careful
2007-01-29 21:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My idea is to stop dressing like a hooker.
2007-01-29 21:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Morning Glory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is do you? If your dressing like that for school, then you parents should stop it. If he is just causing you trouble, then he needs to stop. Easy way to end it is to let you parents decide everyday if what you wear is OK before school.
2007-01-29 21:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, i usually wudntsay anything, but the truth is that if it is true, u shud change ur fashion cuz if u dont, pretty soon some sick rapist is gunna be attracted to u and i wud just hate that!
2007-01-29 21:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Marcy G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow the dress code and if you are brave enough, blow your nose between bubba's toes
2007-01-29 22:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell thems he dose cocain or weeds
2007-01-29 21:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋