he pretending infront of his friends that he does'tn likes me..i feel bad when i heards from one of his friends..but i belived that he loves me..what should i do..
2007-01-29 13:13:56 · 29 answers · asked by charm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate these type of questions!!!
Umm dear...he is married...WAKE UP!! Unless its just a sex thing...no no thats still not right, get a man that is not married.
2007-01-29 13:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married men do fall in love with other women.
There are couples who have open marriages, but
there are very few couples like that.
He's not pretending that he doesn't like you. He doesn't like
you. If he did, he would not be "pretending" to do any thing.
If a married man was in love with you, he would try to hide
it from other people. But he would show his true feelings to you.
He doesn't love you. If he did, he would have said something to
you, and you would not be asking this question. You wouldn't
be feeling bad, either. You would not need to hear from any of his friends.
Even if he did love you, would he have to keep it a secret
from his wife? I think Yeah. And how would he or you keep it
a secret? For how long?
Most women don't want to share a man.
I honestly hope you find a man who does love you.
Don't throw your dignity away for a person who doesn't
want to be with you. The fact that he is married is besides
the point. You should have a man who loves you.
2007-01-29 21:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS MARRIED! Sorry but you need to let this go. Even if you do decide to selfishly help cause another woman, pain you will one day soon be that same woman! This guy is obvioussly not faithful so I half to ask why you would even want to be with some one like this? He probally has had or has more than just you on the side. Sorry to sound harsh but I know you have enough sense to know this is wrong. Don't fool yourself. Good luck!
2007-01-29 21:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous_alwyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he has a ring on his finger and no divorce papers he is off limits. Besides if he treats you bad in front of his friends then how much does he really love you? The other question you want to ask yourself is do you reallly want to fall in love with a guy you can't be seen with, can't go anywhere with, and if you want to be together you have to hide? Thats not love to me.
2007-01-29 21:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by froggz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go dack to school learn how to spell we don't spell like we talk#1 #2He is not pretending not to like you all he wants is what you give him you know SEX#3The man is married if he will do his wife like this what do you think he will do to you#4He is married got children if his wife finds out what do you think he can give you after paying child support and a home you know taking care of his family#5Are you crazy hooking up with a married man you should know better there are lots of single men out there.I can keep on going why you need to leave him along but you know what you want.
2007-01-29 21:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone! He's married which means you would be that homewrecker, ho*e, Bi**h. Do you think you could live with that for the rest of your life. He will never leave his wife for you anyways. They never do. BELIEVE ME! Even if he did you would never trust him because of what he did with you while he was married. That relationship would be nothing but a dissaster. Just accept that you really like him and be a strong woman and walk away.
2007-01-29 22:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "Feel" that he loves you. But you are not sure. Sometimes, such wanting feeling comes from the fact that you are in love and love can make a person feel strange and crazy things. So I say that he probably does not love you, like his friends say, because there is really no reason to hide such things from friends. Don't keep on thinking about him and move on is my recommendation, because if you don't move on, and he doesn't love you, you will hurt yourself. Or if it is true, you will destroy a family.
2007-01-29 21:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by The Answerer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull out of his life. If he wants you as the other woman; divorces his wife for you. Look down the road; chances are high that he would cheat on you with another woman. That pattern rarely changes.
2007-01-29 21:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about this guy. Yeah yeah your in love and its hard, but get over it. He's no good for you. How would you feel if someone was messing with your man. Have respect for your fellow women. Get your own man.
2007-01-29 21:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by corryglory 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should confront him because he may be your true love. He may also not be and you sohuld know because you don't want to have feelings for a married guy that doesn't like you.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-29 21:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by GirlyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋