ok, im not trying to sound like a bi*ch, but a lot of guys like me,
and i dont like them
what do i do
like how do i just say i want to be frinds.
and a lot of them are my good freidns
could i be like sending the wrong message to them??
PLEASEANDTHANKYOU!
2007-01-29 13:11:18 · 11 answers · asked by livers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOTS AND LOTS OF DETALES PLEASE!
2007-01-29 13:19:05 · update #1
nad im 13 alomst 14
and juust for the recored, im flat
so why would they like me?
yes, when i say flat i mean boobles
2007-01-29 13:19:59 · update #2
When they come on to you, just tell them it isn't like that. Then don't let them dwell or think you don't want to hang around them anymore. But don't make it a big conversation. Cut it off before it goes there. Just say something like, "Aww, It's not like that, Babe. Wanna go.....shoot hoops, to the club, do shots, watch Heroes, etc."
2007-01-29 13:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's just say you are young and starting to become the object of desire to guys who just found girls are pretty cool to look at and hang with. Welcome to young love. I'm guess you all are kids. You may or may not unconsciously put on a show for guys--and being VISUAL creatures and probably immature--young guys want to be with you. It will go away but for now you have a lesson in life to learn. The first is a matter of your self respect---keep all the young love issues in perspective---be smart and realize that you can have friends ---boys and girls friends---keeping the guys under control takes a maturity lesson. First of all, learn how to act like a woman. Dress nice, don't act like a whorey type woman, show self control and tone it all down..keep these guys at bay---try not to start a competition. It is easy to just be nice and be a good friend. Hi how are you? Have a nice day---bye. If you choose to date, pick a nice guy and start slow---reputations are at stake...word gets around fast so if you value your self respect and pride--do not get involved with sex or physical activity that can get out of hand. I mean is it a date or a wrestling match??? If it is a wrestling match---you can bet that's the story that is going around--so keep your feet on the floor until you are ready to have sex for the right reasons and with the best young man when the time is RIGHT !!! Young men can be immature and do some nutty stuff---inappropriate touching, goofy ways to get attention---be sure to let anyone doing these things that they have to stop, you are NOT impressed and keep their distance if they can't control themselves... I hope you see all of what I say---GOOD LUCK !!
2007-01-29 21:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're not at the stage yet where you are longing to be with a guy, you may simply not be ready yet. These things can't be pushed (well, not with good results). There's no hurry to this. If you're a tomboy and just don't like boys in general, that's another matter. You need to think very carefully about which gender you're attracted to, and then make wise decisions.
2007-01-29 21:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to be honest and tell them that too many guys like you right now, but you dont like any of them back. Hopefully these guys will realize that you are just that cool, ignore you and move on to some better chicks
2007-01-29 21:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor, poor dear. If you're physically attractive, guys are going to
"like" you. If you have no interest in them, just do what other girls do . When you're around them, talk about other guys that YOU like, don't flirt with them, and don't lead them on. If they still don't get it, then you'll just have to bust out with the "I only like you as a friend" line.
2007-01-29 21:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Alan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be how you give off the wrong message or they are just taking the chance that you don't have a bf right now
2007-01-29 21:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by chaosshade16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being honest. Let them know that you do notice their affections but they need to realize that friendship is all you have to offer. If you can, go one step further and try to get them focused on other women--set them up on dates if possible.
That's pretty much all you can do.
2007-01-29 21:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t lead them on. Tell them of no expectations. If they persist don`t be so nice.
2007-01-29 21:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "I only want to be friends". That's it.
2007-01-29 21:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depend upon you.
signal or no-signal to opposite sex.
2007-01-29 21:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Wondrer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋