someone plzzzzz help me! ive read all the sex and hymen things on here and im still really scared about sex. And ive heard ppl saw it hurtttss sooooo bad. and i was wondering if it hurts so bad wats the point of doing it. and they saw its sore afterwards and ur body needs to ajust but that seems so horrible i mean if its so natural ur body shouldnt have to adjust
plllzzz help anyone!
2007-01-29 13:08:25 · 6 answers · asked by Rebecca golder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're making an "ADULT" decision to engage in sex, then you are probably with the right person. When the time is right, it doesn';t hurt. Someone who treats you with compassion will ensure that it is the most pleasurable moment for you.
2007-01-29 13:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to be afraid of. If sex hurt that bad no one would do it. Your first time might feel alittle uncomfortable but you aren't going to be in severe pain. If you're so worried about it then before you have sex stretch yourself out alittle bit. Take your fingers and gently stretch the tissue out down there by massaging yourself. There's nothing to be ashamed of either, it's really called masturbation and nearly everyone does it, usually us women do it with toys if you have no toys then this will do. Before and while you're having sex,be as relaxed as possible(hard,i know)because it'll make you alittle looser down there, and make sure you are really wet before you do it because if you're not it will be really uncomfortable. You may bleed alittle but don't worry,it's normal for some woman. Sex feels really good when you're ready to do it. Masturbation will prepare you for sex and it will also teach you what you like and don't like. Don't be scared at all,after you have sex you will want it all the time.
2007-01-29 21:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Whiteangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts the first time but it depends on how easy the guy is with you. If he's real gentle it doesn't hurt that bad. And you will be sore after but that also depends on the guy. It only hurts the first time though. After that, you will start to enjoy it. But it sounds like your not ready. You should be ready before you do anything or your going to regret it for the rest of your life.
2007-01-29 22:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not found a woman that says it really,really hurts.I've known a few that say it is a discomfort for a minute or 2.Then it goes away & they were caught up in what they were doing.There is blood involved,with some girls it's a sm. amount others it can be a lot.It just depends on the woman.Don't rush yourself on giving up your virginity.Take your time,find someone you're comfortable with & trust.Don't just jump in bed with someone because everyone else is doing it.Guys are just after another notch on the bedpost.You know the bragging rights of taking a girls cherry.Be with a man WHEN YOU FEEL SAFE & COMFORTABLE not when he tries to pressure you.Again don't do it just because.You'll know when you're ready & be safe no matter who it is with.TELL HIM NO CONDOM NO LOVING!I wish you the best of luck young lady.
2007-01-29 21:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with ur gut
if ur not ready dont do it
2007-01-29 21:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by pennintights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only painful for teenagers.
2007-01-29 21:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋