Confused about BF, of over a year, being conflicted.?

Question

My BF, started not trusting me when I told him he could not move in with me until my son finished school, which is only in June. He said that intellectually he knew that he was wrong, but emotionally, he could not help it. Things went down hill from there. Finally, he started going on the singles sites, and even when he told me that he wanted to give us another chance, he was like a kid in a candy store (being on the singles sites). In an effort to try and understand this, I questioned him about it, where he said, he just could not regain the rapture. I am so hurt! Tonight, he wrote me an email saying: "I don't deny and never did say I didn't have feelings for you.I said I was conflicted.There are times when I feel love for you and others when I don't.Don't know what any of that means. When I am with you I am captivated by you, when not with you ,I don't think about it. I don't understand it ,for what its worth.". What should I do??

I am disappointed that I have had only one response. My BF was a man that I loved very much. He asked me to marry him, and then changed his mind. He said he loved me and two days later said he is conflicted. Should I hang in there or let him go? Certainly someone has gone through this????

Hello??????????/ Is anybody out there? This is important to me!

Answer 1

I think the guy don't feel or is getting attention. Maybe you should try to get him more attention like telling him what you like about him and when he did this, you were happy to see. I don't really know either. I just hope that everything turns out well and you guys get alone.