I am 18 and lost my virginity about 4 months ago. Me and my boyfriend have sex regularly, always with protection of course, and I have noticed changes in my body, and emotionally. I feel like a different person, and I just am looking for some helpful information or advice about this. Any information you can give me will be helpful. Thank you.
2007-01-29 12:50:05 · 17 answers · asked by rainbowglowgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Losing your virginity is an emotional and hormonal issue your body is dealing with. Emotionally, you may be feeling some guilt. Questioning if it was the right decision based on the fact that the first initial experience was painful and scary. Body wise, your body has built up the hormones and been in a tizzy since puberty hit. For visual effects. Imagine a balloon filled with water (your hormones). More water is added little by little over the years. Eventually, that balloon will get to its breaking point. When the actual breaking of that balloon happens, the anticipation and excitement to see what that balloon would be like, seems almost a disappointment. Hormones are a strong thing and you feel like a different person, because the urge the hormones that encouraged you, released when you had sex for the first time.
2007-01-29 13:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't really change emotionally, except for the realization that sex wasn't that big a deal, not a momentous, earth-shaking event (or at least it doesn't have to be). But I had already suspected that anyway.
But that's just me.
What expectations did you have for your post-loss-of-virginity life that aren't being met? Is your relationship with your boyfriend different, or not what you thought it would be now that you guys have done it? Give that a thought or two... and if the changes in your body are pretty big, go to the doctor. Hope this helps.
2007-01-29 12:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by somebody 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since you're sexually active it's important to regularly see a gynecologist to make sure everything is all right down there.
do you "feel" more mature for having sex? physically you may be, but emotionally it's possible that you aren't. men and women more than not, view sex differently. with women it's more an emotional connection than just physical. but does your boyfriend view it the same way you do?
losing your virginity is something you can never get back. the media usually portrays it in a negative light. but why is that, i wonder? it's important that a person treats his/her body with respect. sex is a very personal and emotional experience for most people, and it's something you want to do it with someone special who you know sincerely cares for you. do you believe your boyfriend is that person? does he respect you both emotionally and physically? sometimes women are blind to those things about the "men" they see. that's why they usually go out with jerks because they don't respect themselves.
2007-01-29 13:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer to your question is yes, because it's a more of a bonding issues between you and that person (well supposedly). I think and this is just my opinion, that have sex with each other brings you too together even more. Which makes your feeling more open to each other and makes you emotional. Men often time try to hind hit sometimes but take away the sex and watch what will happen!!!!
2007-01-29 12:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by dankekag 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first time I had sex I was 17. It was the best experience of my life probably because I will never get layed by another girl as hot my first. From then on I felt better more manly and also happier in general. My last few girl friends have bein nothing to brag about but I think some day I will find another hotty.
2007-01-29 12:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by CAPTAIN GENIUS !! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
physically of course sex changes you, you may find yourself filling out a little more, feeling more attractive, and possibly more conscience of others sexuality. your tastes in men might also change.
we all have been taught sex is emotional and it changes you emotionally as well. yeah. you most likely feel like your relationship is more important, and you might feel a little worried over something changing in your relationship. in the same way you become more emotionally charged you may also feel stronger and more capeable of things.
2007-01-29 12:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by kendoneko116 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex changes you in a number of ways you feel better about yourself you make your partner feel better. then it now means you can do the things you always see in the movies. feeling the passion eroticness the sexuality. getting to be an animal. sex basically just does wonders it stimulates the mind. sex is not to be taken lightly sex is not an emotion is about really good about yourself
2007-01-29 13:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes because your body starts to learn new senses, and yes emotionally because all your mental boundaries have changed also.
2007-01-29 12:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Informed 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
u gain and you lose with sex. Gain power till it's over. Then You lose power right after it's over.
2007-01-29 12:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm it doesn't you just fell different because you just lose your virginity a couple of moments ago, you'll get over it. most of the men fell like colombus, we just conquere an island. lol
2007-01-29 12:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by Da 1 N only 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋