She really wants them but says I have to pay for them. I work at Burger King I can't afford to buy those. I like her the way she is. Should I save up the money to pay for them anyway? I'm worried she'll dump me after she gets them.
2007-01-29 12:46:06 · 16 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No
She is looking to use you.
If you pay for them how long do you think she will stick around?
Not long
2007-01-29 12:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to buy them when it is her idea? tread carefully. you cant afford a car from the money at burger king, so definitely no boobs in the near future. As soon as she gets them, she will be even more appealing to guys and get offers all the time, and if she is looking for Mr RIGHT, then you may be traded in.
you could be left holding nothing but a receipt for the boobs, the debt, and no girl...
2007-01-29 20:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her she is great how she is. If you don't want her to get them, then tell her that. If she still wants them ust as a confidence booster then tell her she has to get them herself because you cant afford it. And your concern of her dumping you after she gets them, I can see where you're coming from. But if it's meant to be it will last. Who knows, her wishing for breast implants could just be a way for her to get you to tell her how you love her the way she is. Girls are weird like that... lol Good Luck =)
2007-01-29 20:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by april&justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but her saying that she wants implants, but then making you pay for them doesn't seem right, especially when you're fine with her the way she is. Tell her that you like her the way she is, and shouldn't worry about the size of her boobs.
(It's nice that you're a guy who's actually satisfied with the size of your girlfriend's chest, and isn't constantly having fantasies about her with huge Pamela Anderson boobs.)
2007-01-29 20:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by steff0317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't pay for them
no 1 should make u do something especially if u can't afford it
and what happens when u break up? its not like shes going to give u back the money
2007-01-29 22:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by yadira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m with you on this one. Don't be a boob. If she wants that kind of surgery, let her pay for it. You're a boyfriend (and obviously not a rich one) not her husband. I'm sure she'll thank you for the new titts on her way out the door.
2007-01-29 20:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is nuts! Tell her to get them herself and then invite her to Burger King and ask her to stand real close to the heat of the grill, and watch them fry!
2007-01-29 20:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her dump you. If sh'es just using you for bigger cans then drop her. Is this the person you want to spend your life with? If she'll dump you for not getting her something material, she's not worth it, mate!
2007-01-29 20:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by N/A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Save your money. This girl has poor self esteem and is not worth doing any thing for. She needs to like herself and feel good about who she is before she is worth anything to you or anyone else. Just let it go and move on.
2007-01-29 20:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by sunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol why should you pay for this? she is simply manipulating you ! She doesn't consider your situation. If i have a bf i love, i won't make him work so hard just to buy me nice things.
2007-01-29 20:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋