So there's this guy I like and my best friend likes him too. Whenever I see him my best friend is all over him. He doesn't look that interested in her, but I can't really tell whether he likes her or not. He always stares at me and flirts with me, but I'm not sure who he likes me, or her. So what should I do drop him or drop my best friend.
2007-01-29 12:41:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him
2007-01-29 12:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont drop your Bf.. that just shows that you arent a very good friend. Im pretty sure he likes you becuase most guys may like it when girls are all over them but they like the ones that dont do that the best. Thats why hes always staring at you and flirting with you..
2007-01-29 12:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to young love---you have tunnel vision---GET THE BIG PICTURE. You don't have to drop either person---it is a big world out there---plenty of men and women for each other to date or whatever. You set your sights on a boy who is obviously enjoying what all men like--attention from the girls. Well why try any longer???--look somewhere else and stop looking at them---let them have fun while you go and find your own fun. And you wish your friends luck ---smile--and stop seeing it as a competition. Your life is only going to get more complicated--so learn to weigh all the options for solving any of your problems. No need to feel bad, no need to compete, no need to lose friends. Nothing in life says you have to win---you are trying as hard as anyone else--and not just with the love issues--I mean everything. Hopefully you learn how to be fair, respectful, courteous, and not to be a sore loser. You certainly want people to be just as nice to you when you win and they lose. Life is a 2 way street. Your life is not always revolving around the guy situation--what it is now is lessons in life---how the future will be handled by you. So get out there and date someone else---have fun and don't get in a tizzy with your friends. In 2 weeks you all will forget about all this. Have a nice life and do the RIGHT thing----it helps you to mature and be at peace with yourself. BYE
2007-01-29 12:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your best friend know that you like this kid? if she does maybe she's just all over him ot piss you off or something.
but you're doing the right thing by laying low. if you like a guy it's best to play it cool instead of being touchy feely all the time because you might send him the wrong message. if he's flirting with both of you then maybe he's confused, or maybe he's just a nice kid. if he stares at you though, he most likely finds you intriguing or thinks you're pretty.
i don't think you should drop either quite yet. wait and see how this thing plays out and then drop someone
2007-01-29 12:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nkat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the guy and depending on his answer tell your best friend. you both obviously like him, well ask him who he likes. if the guy likes you, nicely tell your best friend to lay off, and if he likes her, then without a word, continue letting her do what she is doing cause it is her problem now. but it is not worth "dropping" a best friend over a dude, no matter what... especially since you are BEST friends.
you don't know whether to make your move or not because you do not know what the guy thinks. simply ask him. it seems difficult but it will makes things clearer. hopefully you do what is correct, since you may end up losing a friend and the dude if you act without thinking anything through, but don't over think it either.
2007-01-29 12:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOnt ever drop your best friend for a guy its happend to me and when the guy is gone theres no one to look back on cause you pushed everyone to the side friends will always be there but guys will always come and go
2007-01-29 12:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by jen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time with a guy who's immature. plus, do you really want to ruin a friendship for a boy? there are plenty of guys out there you can pick and choose from, but a good friendship is hard to find.
here's another piece of advice about guys: make sure he respects you and your family and friends. if he doesn't he isn't worth it.
2007-01-29 12:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by GST 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh tough, confiding in your friend isnt good. It rly sounds likes he likes you more, so instead confide in him, sounds crazy but tell him you like him but your friend also does, what should you do. A good guy should help you, also try introducing your friend to other guys first and then date the guy.
2007-01-29 12:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course everyone is going to say drop him, but, just go behind her back to find out if he's interested in you to. then if he is tell her and say that he likes you more and you hope she understands and no harsh feelings because if he wouldve chosen her youd still be her friend right?
2007-01-29 12:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by j_oD-i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH hun.
dont ever drop your best friend for a guy.
if she doesnt know you like him then tell her maybe she will back off or drop him .
if not then you just have to deal with it.
thats life hun.
but let her know..=].hallie.
2007-01-29 12:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to them both first seperate then together and go from there but always remember boys will walk in and out of your life but your true friends will always be there for you no matter what and hoesssss before brossss!!!
2007-01-29 12:47:21 · answer #11 · answered by xoloveyoulotsxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋