I reealllyy Like himmmm!!!!
How can i talk to him and make him like meee=]
2007-01-29 12:38:27 · 48 answers · asked by Gracie_$ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, first of all make a list. Have 2 colums ,what you like about him and what yo don't, fill it out fully. If there are more 'Don't likes' then give up. If their are more likes go for it
First aim for a solid friendship, you may find thats all you want. Joke around, give him a reassuring smile. Theres no need for obsessive love letters and un-nescisary physical contact. Play it cool. be comftorble with him. Not all jittery and nervous.
Good Luck!
2007-01-29 12:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a guy likes you, then he likes you. He could be shy or he may not notice you. Whatever the issue is it is obviously not the right time yet. I think you should continue to be you. Do not make any special attempts to make him notice you. Do not wear any mini skirts or short short, or anything else out of the norm because if you do you will have to continue to satisfy him and the relationship will not work anyways. Just be yourself and if he likes that then you know he really likes you, that way if or when you do get him or whoever you know it is real and you can relax and enjoy each other and the relationship.
2007-01-29 12:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by dbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree you should be yourself..but its more then that..Exude confidence.if you do not beleive it (meaning beleive in yourself) nobody else willl! This is so so true...What are you projecting? Are you projecting warmth and compassion? Tenderness and openness? Are you witty and wonderful? Do you see yourself as clever and funloving? Every one of us has something unique ....We all have strengths and you need to search inside yourself and find what it is that makes you special or what is your most redeeming quality and then develop it more and PROJECT it onto him...if he doesnt like you after that then move on because there is a guy who WILL..so dont get caught up on one guy, know when to cut and run.
Some could say find things in common or familiarize yourself with his hobbies and strike up a conversation about it gaining his interest in the process..You could do that.but only if you are genuinely into whatever it is.... dont act like you like rap or wrestling if you do not..be yourself but make the good qualities stand out more ....confidence confidence confidence....
2007-01-29 12:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show some genuine interest in him, (emphasis on genuine). Find out what he likes and what you have in common. If this is too much of a stretch for you, it just ain't gonna happen. You can't "make" anyone like you, - just reveal the real you and hope it appeals to him.
2007-01-29 12:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by handymanrjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard for many to understand, but its true, you can't Make someone like you.
You can however (with out being to clingy, pushy, or annoying) get to know him better as a person, and let him get to know you and see if anything happens that way.
Just being yourself is the best advice I can give you, I know it sounds rather cheesy.
2007-01-29 12:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds bad, but hear me out. You should be very, very easygoing. I mean this in all senses. If he is a lawyer, be argumentative. If he is an artist, know art. And putting out in the start of a relationship is a way to get him hooked on you. That's how I got my guy.
2007-01-31 07:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make him" but you could help him notice you by
* talking to him
*flirting with him
*hinting to him
*giving him compliments that are really deep feeling like "I think you are the nicest boy I've ever met" or "I wish someone like you would be intrested in me" or however you want to word it, just make it really really obvious. If you don't know him at all, walk up to him and say "Hey, I like your shoes, green is my favorite color(the color of the shoes)" He should reply"Thanks yours are nice too" then you go "Thankyou, hey whats your next class" or anything to that affect, don't be straight forward, make him your friend first, eventually ask him you he would like to sit with you at lunch sometime, If he accepts then rejoice, he wants to be your friend. If he rejects then go sit with him at lunch sometime, just work yourself into his world. At best he'll ask you out, at worst you'll just be friends. Good Luck !!
2007-01-29 12:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by LALALALALALALA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, show him you have a fun side of you! Dress cute! Smile a lot. Talk to him! Let him know you show interest first! Guys tend to like when girls make the first move.
2007-01-29 12:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself around him. He may never like you in a romantic way, but it won't be the end of your life. You will eventually find the person who is happy to reciporate your feelings.
2007-01-29 12:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and act like you have better things to do. This drives them crazy. They will wonder why you don't like him. If you tell him that you like him then the chase is already over before it began. Guys like a challenge so be one.
2007-01-29 12:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by SHOESAREME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋