I really want to wait until marriage to have sex even though I know its really old fashioned but its something I feel really strongly about.Im always afraid to tell the guys I like because Im afraid they will leave me.What would you do if a girl you really liked or even loved told you that she wanted to wait?
2007-01-29 12:19:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she told me she wanted to wait then I'd respect her with every fiber of my self. It tells me that she epitomizes the kind of woman I've been searching for all my life. It means that she has the utmost respect for herself. She's definitely a keeper.
2007-01-29 12:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Darktania 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I would never dump a girl because she would want to wait. Y ou should tell the guys up front how you feel. If they leave, you're better off. Don't be in a rush though. The right guy will come along. When you least expect it.
2007-01-29 12:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by mike r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that there are alot of guys that would dump you because of that. I however am not one of those guys. I've always told myself I would wait til' I was in love at least, with someone who I'd be willing to live with for the rest of my life. I'm 20 and have never been in love so.... ;) you get the idea.
2007-01-29 12:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 00:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband didn't mind waiting. In fact, I think he preferred to. He's a doctor and if he had gotten intimately involved with the wrong type of women, he could have had some big problems.
He worked too hard in his life to let sex (unwanted pregnancy, STD's, herpes, AIDS, emotional drama, abortion, etc) ruin his life. And he thought that a woman who wanted to wait had the morals, character and standards he was looking for in a wife.
2007-01-29 12:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If someone dumps you because you want to wait than he isn't worth your time. Someone who loves you should respect your wishes- especially ones you feel strongly about. If they don't respect your convictions they don't respect you. Why would you want to be with someone that doesn't respect you? Good Luck
2007-01-29 12:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by K S 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your morals! Some guys will move on, others will find that an admirable trait. Don't fall for the old "if you love me"' line. You need to do what is best for you, emotionally as well as physically.
2007-01-29 12:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Papa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She would have my utmost RESPECT.I honestly believe that I would love her even more for her beliefs on this.I know that I would not think less of her or dump her because of wanting to wait.I wish you the best young lady & GOD BLESS YOU for what you believe in.
2007-01-29 14:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need to start things out with a guy with the truth.
The sad thing is there is guys out there who just want sex and nothing more. It's a part of life but, just be truthful with them
Good Luck
2007-01-29 12:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2017-03-01 07:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by Diane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋