Here's a little background. I like this girl. I asked her out on a date once, and she said that she was interested in someone else. Ok, no problems, I was bummed but I moved on. After about a month she started to email me again asking how I'm doing? So I still played it low, but then she kept emailing me, so I asked her out again, but as just friends. She said that would be great. So here's my problem. Does she just want to be friends or more? I don't think I could be just friends with her, so would I be wasting my time just being friends thinking I could get a relationship started other than friends?
2007-01-29 12:14:46 · 14 answers · asked by yaabro 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think I would want to date a guy who couldn't just be friends with me if I wasn't available (emotionally or otherwise).
Wasting your time???!?! OUCH!
2007-01-29 12:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by shees_a_challenge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since u said u want to hang out with her as friends.....maybe she wants to be friends or more than friends....ohhh, ask her out again and tell me all the details. I am good with advice or post another question like this so i can answer it lol
2007-01-29 20:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by anhtu6868 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is the best advice u will ever get...
GIRLS ARE THE MOST COMPLICATED THING U WILL EVER MEET!!!!! trying to figure us out might be a threat to your health, and your sanity! just kidding!
if she started e-mailing u again, she probably doesnt like the other guy anymore. go out a couple of times as friends, and see if she makes a move first. then, if she doesnt, and she doesnt act like she wants to be more than friends, dont ask her out. if she does act like she want to be more than friends, ASK HER OUT ALREADY!!
2007-01-29 20:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by stevie_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Your never waisting your time when you make friends. If you find it is something more then you have to decide what you want. The ball is now in your court. Just don't let her use you. Some men can be easily used.
2007-01-29 20:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the other guy didn't work out and so she decided that maybe she did like you after all. either way you should go out with her. if it seems right then make the move. but you shouldn't have that attitude. you should be happy to be friends with her even if she wants to be more, but by the looks of it, she's looking for more than friends.
2007-01-29 20:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she just really enjoys you as a friend. Whats wrong with just being her friend? At least you could be a part of her life. Who knows, one day she might really fall for you. That's usually what happens.
2007-01-29 20:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, because i kindof did this to a guy. He was taken, but i love him. I told him we were just friends, but it was only so his girlfriend wouldnt find out. I lovvvve him and i think shes interested go for it!
2007-01-29 20:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by iloveyoubaby92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She took a second look at you and reconsidered her first decision when you asked her out.
She likes you.
Go 4 it.
2007-01-29 20:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"does she want to friends or more" maybe u should ask her that question. she obviously nos the answer
2007-01-29 20:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by Sunrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is interested! WAY 2 GO!
2007-01-29 20:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋