Ok there is this one girl that i have been talking too lately. When we first started going out I had told her I did'nt really want to do anything with her because I did not want to start falling for her. She just broke up with her ex like 3 weeks ago and thats around the same time we started hanging out. One thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. and then she said so what am I your booty call now? and I said no to that.But ever since then we havent kissed each other and done it as well.Yesterday we went to the movies and she was cuddled up on me, but its wierd its like we dont really kiss or hold hands or anything. My problem is i am starting to like her and last night over the phone i asked her what is going on with us and that i was confused.I told her how i felt. She said that she is infatuated with me and that she does have some feelings for me. But then she went back to what I originally told her about how I didnt want things to happen in the beginning. I am so confused
2007-01-29 12:08:52 · 5 answers · asked by xnightz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My question is i want to know if I am just some rebound guy, I thought when one is infatuated with someone everything is loud and clear.
2007-01-29 12:10:34 · update #1
she is scared that you may end up hurting her. first you didnt want that with her, then you have sex with her, then you were neutral for a while, and then you decide that you like her. your screaming "UNSTABLE" thru everyone of your pores. if you really like her, reassure, prove to her with actions that you really do like her and want a stable relationship.
2007-01-29 12:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by imherewhatareyourothertwowishes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is the one who is confused. You told her you dont want to do anything with her, then you have sex, then you havent kissed or anything since...think about it, shes feeling the same way as you! She doesnt know where she stands, especially since you had told her that you didnt want to "start falling for her". She probably feels like shes the booty call! If you want a relationship, you just have to tell her its that or nothing.
2007-01-29 12:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by luvbrd81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is that you had sex first. Now your relationship is solely based on physical matters and nothing else. Next time start out with someone with talking - a friendship. Then go on dates, and get to know each other. Your relationship will mean a lot more if you more time into HER (not her body). She is giving you mixed signals because she is also confused herself. She wants to be treated with respect. However, sometimes girls feel like they have to have sex with a guy to get his attention. If that is the case with you - then that's sad. If you respect her - (like she wants), - then respect her. Get to know her. Don't be physically intimate with her. respect her.
2007-01-29 12:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by flippy00 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yawwNNnn dude next time summarize it...and my answer is just do whatever u think is truly right.
2007-01-29 12:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by HOW I dO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and ask her if that is what you are to her.
Good Luck
2007-01-29 12:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋