ok so i was on ebay looking at fridges and stuff cause me and my boyfriend are moving to our own place ( currently living with my mum.
anyways..i made a bid on a fridge..(im the only person that has made a bid on that item and it ends in 2 days)..even though i might not win..BUT if i do..i never thought of how on earth im going to pick up the fridge if i do win it (we dont have a car )..i dont want to tell my bf..but should i ? ..i dont know if he'll get angry at me..cause the fridge was cheap..but we might have to rent a truck or something and their not very cheap..not for us that we are trying to save money for our new place anyways.what should i do? tell my bf? ..and what should i do if i win it?
2007-01-29 12:00:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, no house is complete without a fridge. so you kinda needed it. just find a friends truck and borrow it, or get it sent to you. but if both are too expensive, ask friends or family if they can help you pick it up. your boyfriend has no right to get mad. everybody needs a fridge in their house.
2007-01-29 12:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a decision that two people moving in together usually make together.
It is wise to tell him. Then you can decide what to do, if it is even workable to pick it up or if you need to consider retracting the bid.
Decisions about major appliances, cars and such big purchases that affect both persons in the relationship are best made together. That will avoid redundancy (both of you getting a fridge) and complications (how to get it home).
If he gets mad, so what. It's all manageable. If he becomes unreasonably angry or abusive, it would be a good time to reconsider the move.
2007-01-29 20:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did it say you had to pick it up ? If you are
in a serious relationship, don't start lying to
him. Tell him your problem so he can help
you solve it. You'll feel better in the end.
He may find out anyhow, and think if she
hid this from me WHAT ELSE IS SHE HIDING ?
2007-01-29 20:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by trebor2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a family member with a car they could lend you? Maybe you could ask, anyways keep your eyes on the bid.
P.S. It may be a good idea to tell your boyfriend, your decision on that one.
2007-01-29 20:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by lunar_eclipse142 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless you can have someone help you.....take your bid off. By the time you rent a truck it won't be a cheap refridge any more!
2007-01-29 20:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a friend's truck that you can borrow and THEN tell your boyfriend. He can't get mad if it's something that you truly needed!
2007-01-29 20:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur b/f gets mad at you for sumthin like that then theres sumthin wrong with him. tell him.. 2 heads are better then 1.
Be honest in ur relationships
2007-01-29 20:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to pick it up, they mail it to you and a truck delivers it to your house.
2007-01-29 20:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sha-Sha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋