My mom is always yelling at me and sometimes i think she's just going to give me away to an orphen because she yells at me all the time. What should i do?? Please HelpME!!!!
2007-01-29 11:57:44 · 5 answers · asked by princess95331 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is not your problem, this is your moms. You need to sit down with her explain how her yelling at you makes you feel. Tell her it hurts your feelings. Ask her why she must yell, why can she not talk to you in a normal manner. She may have been yelled at alot when she was growing up and that be the only way she knows how to communicate to you. If you sit her down you will get answers..
2007-01-30 03:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mommyof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she is doing this. there has got to be a reason. she isn't going to give you away so don't worry about that. if she won't tell you why she is doing this then just zone her out. go in your room and listen to the radio or something. if she really just yells at you for no reason then that is just the type of person she is and that doesn't have anything to do with you so don't feel bad. some people just can't be happy no matter what. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-01-29 12:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At a time when your mom is calm, talk to her about how you feel when she yells at you. Say, "I feel scared and afraid that you don't love me when you yell at me." If she is receptive, than tell her exactly what you told us about your fears. (About her giving you away.) This sort of honesty will help her to understand you better, as well as help her find a more suitable way to communicate with you. And, by the way....I doubt you are alone. Most kids get "yelled at" at one time or another. If your mom doesn't want to talk with you about this, than you might talk to a friend your age that you trust for support.
2007-01-29 12:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with her. Even if she says she doesn't care somewhere inside of her she has love for you and is probably going through a hard time and is taking it out on you. When my mom and I had problems a while back I used to talk to her and tell her how I was feeling so it could be resolved. That was a good 6 years ago.
Good Luck
2007-01-29 12:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with her and tell her how u feel about her yelling. if she says she doesn't care, then just try to ignore her. but one of my teachers said, "if u know what they are going to say when they lecture u then just count how many times their tounge comes out of their mouth, or jsut count how many words they say, that is what i do
2007-01-29 12:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by darkdragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋