my bf and i recently decided that we should take a beak to focus on our studies.im all for it...because it makes alot of sense..but im finding it so hard...we decided on a day which we will get to talk on the phone...we won't be seeing much of each other either.
how do i cope with it?
2007-01-29 11:46:54 · 7 answers · asked by pixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find another guy
2007-01-29 11:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tanner H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop seeing eachother more slowly. Not all of the sudden lets stop seeing eachother kind of deal. Especially if you were with each other almost everyday.
Talk with your boyfriend and ask him you could see him more often and in a few weeks set less time to see him and so on. This way your body and emotions are gradually eased off the fact that he isnt going to be there everyday and you will eventually find different things to do. This way you arent going cold turkey. That will be hard for anyone to just stop seeing someone they have been seeing for a long time or daily. Just ease off of it for a few weeks and gradually decrease the time you spend with him. I'm sure it will be easier for the both of you.
This may even help you more with your studies. If you go cold turkey without him it will be extremely hard to focus because all you can think about is being with him. if you just eased off for a while you wouldnt be yearning for him so bad and you would be able to focus on other things easier.
I hope this helps you out! Good luck! Bye.
2007-01-29 11:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very mature of both of you...put your studies first. You can cope by thinking how much fun you all have together. Mark the days off the calendar until you all make you phone calls. Hang in there and keep it up!!!!!!
2007-01-29 11:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by kellistines 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to really get focussed on your studies or other hobbies. While it may take a while to get used to, eventually you'll find it easier to be away from him, which will make the time you do have with him particularly special!! Good luck, I hope this all works out for you :)
2007-01-29 11:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant, if u want to see that person and talk to him all the time, well thats what u want xspecialy if u love that person, there is no way to get over it, unless u stop caring, but that wont happin
2007-01-29 11:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by CANDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep telling your self you come 1st. we all do what we need to do not what we want to do. and in the further your education will pay off.
2007-01-29 11:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm put your mind on your studies duh...
2007-01-29 11:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋