I had known this kid Dallin for about 3 weeks before he asked me out. We went out for 2 weeks before he broke up with me because his friends had been pressuring him to break it off with me and because he was moving and felt he couldn't handle a long-distance relationship.
Anyways, ever since he broke up with me, he started acting really jealous whenever I was around other guys. He made up stories of him hooking up with chicks to get me jealous and he avoided me at school. This weekend I saw him and ended up talking to him a lot. He flirted like crazy with me, and ever since he has been teasing me a lot and acting like he did while we were still going out.
I feel really confused because I don't know what's going on in his mind. I still care about him, but I really don't want to get hurt again...
2007-01-29 11:44:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waste time on him. He could break up with you because of his friends pressure, how can he be trusted? You should go back and study hard, or find a more mature guy if you want to know what is love about.
2007-01-29 12:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a pity that you didn't mentioned your age, but if he is in his teens, it is natural, that he pays a lot of attention to what his friends are thinking. On the one hand, if you really like the guy, you could give him a second chance, on the other, do you really want to have a boyfriend, who so easily gives up under pressure of his friends and don't use his own head when making decisions? And then again, he is just human and humans make mistakes.
My advice would be just see how it goes - you don't have to be an easy catch again. Relationship takes time, and you have loads of it.
Best luck!
2007-01-29 11:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sauluzia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that he really didn't want to break off. and he probably knows he made a mistake. and now he realizes that you are talking to other guys. and of course he still likes you and hes going to be jealous. so he thought maybe if he got you jealous that you be mad. find someone whos going to like you, and don't care what their friends says. good luck. you deserve better than him. let him stew in his own mistakes of breaking off with you.
2007-01-29 11:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you and he are about 11 or 12 years old. This is typical boy behavior for this age. Give him a few years and your self as well, you will have forgotten all about each other and moved on.
2007-01-29 11:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless his reasons for breaking up have changed...he's NOT going to move...his friends have less influence on his decisions..etc...
he's still a big risk for breaking up...proceed with caution, and guard your heart!!
2007-01-29 11:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by sacanda_trina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're two young for this kind of drama.
to the curb with him!
Find someone who uses their brains other than to use them as a seat cushion.
2007-01-29 11:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Booty! YEAH!!!!
2007-01-29 11:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋